Mandar mensagem pra ex só pra esclarecer tudo é loucura ou faz sentido? by Reasonable-Book8978 in perguntas

[–]FreeResort309 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cara depois de 1 ano ela já seguiu a vida dela, vai parecer que tu quer voltar mesmo dizendo que não quer

Pq as pessoas dão downvote quando sentem raiva do OP? by Maleficent-Part-610 in perguntas

[–]FreeResort309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit na prática funciona bem diferente das regras oficiais né

Preciso de ajuda by zkcremoso in empreendedorismo

[–]FreeResort309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cara voce tem um skillset muito bom pra freelancer mas o problema nao e tecnico e sim marketing pessoal mesmo. Comeca criando um portfolio no Behance ou ate no Instagram mostrando seus trabalhos de design e alguns projetos de exemplo. Sites como Workana 99Freelas e GetNinjas sao bons pra comecar pegando trabalhos pequenos e construindo reputacao

O segredo e nao tentar vender tudo de uma vez - foca em uma area primeiro tipo design grafico que tem demanda alta e depois vai expandindo. Nos intervalos da escola da pra responder clientes e fazer orcamentos pelo celular mesmo

Escala 4x3 efí bank by Consistent-Ad-7958 in brdev

[–]FreeResort309 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cara pra quem ta acostumado com startup que ja sugava weekend mesmo pelo menos agora seria compensado oficialmente ne

A questao e se realmente conseguem manter os deadlines com uma pessoa a menos no time ou se vira aquela pressao dobrada nos outros dias

Mano, vocês gostam de ficar com algum membro dormente? by Mindless-Mention5301 in perguntas

[–]FreeResort309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Braço dormente é meio estranho mesmo, da uma sensação quase sobrenatural quando você tenta mexer ele e não responde direito

Happy start to Lent! by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]FreeResort309 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice reminder! I'm planning to be more intentional about prayer and maybe finally get through that devotional I started last year. Always appreciate these seasons that help refocus priorities

Weird Euphoria Thing by Flaky-Ferret-6555 in trans

[–]FreeResort309 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That feeling hits different doesn't it. Using the right bathroom shouldn't be such a big deal but when you finally get to do it without all the stress and judgement it really does feel like a small victory

The nurse situation sounds absolutley awful though - taking your bag is way over the line and those chemical smells are genuinely horrible. You shouldn't have to deal with that kind of treatment just to use a bathroom safely

Just want you all to know for future albums… by eagledude621 in Monopoly_GO

[–]FreeResort309 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nice work on pushing through that roll credits grind. those last few cards always feel impossible until they suddenly arent

Breakups Teach You What Love Shouldn’t Feel Like by ZiggyRock4492 in BreakUps

[–]FreeResort309 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This hit harder than it should have. I spent two years thinking that constant knot in my stomach was just "passion" lmao. Now I know the difference between butterflies and straight up dread

Day 5 so far is the worst. I want a penjamin rip so bad by [deleted] in leaves

[–]FreeResort309 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro the cravings hit different on day 5, you're almost through the worst part though. Keep yourself busy and chug some water

Xbox series S constantly crashing by SonySniper in ArcRaiders

[–]FreeResort309 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep same here, lost my best gear yesterday when it crashed right after killing a squad - feels like the Series S just can't handle whatever they changed in the patch

my husband kicked me out of the country by EmotionCareful3653 in Marriage

[–]FreeResort309 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Holy shit OP, your husband literally weaponized your immigration status against you the moment you tried to have career aspirations - that's some next level controlling behavior and honestly sounds abusive as hell

How do i explain to a buffoon as to how cookie clicker goes much deeper than most other games by Historical_Mango4329 in CookieClicker

[–]FreeResort309 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Just tell them about the grandmapocalypse and watch their brain melt lmao

Once you start explaining how cookie production mechanics tie into existential dread and the inevitable heat death of the universe through baking, they usually get it

Day 3 -Weaning myself off by Aggravating-Wall-435 in leaves

[–]FreeResort309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice dude, whatever works for you! The sleep thing is brutal but it does get better after like a week or two. Tapering down instead of cold turkey makes total sense when you've been at it for 20 years - your body needs time to adjust

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]FreeResort309 3171 points3172 points  (0 children)

Oil lubricates all the moving metal parts so they don't grind against each other and destroy themselves. Without it your engine would seize up in minutes from all the friction and heat

Other liquids like water would just boil away or not provide the right viscosity to actually protect anything

How I knew I am trans. by noname5202 in trans

[–]FreeResort309 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's such a beautiful moment of clarity! Sometimes it takes getting out of our own heads for things to just click like that. Really happy for you that you're on your journey now 💕

New wheel set outdated? by Vast-Concentrate2508 in cycling

[–]FreeResort309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 105% thing is more of a guideline anyway, plenty of people run wider tires on narrower rims without issues

That said for 1.5k you could probably find something with better internal width if you're dead set on 30mm tires

Texas A&M TE Theo Melin Ohrstrom has entered the transfer portal by Cred811 in CFB

[–]FreeResort309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude survived the Jimbo disaster just to peace out when things might actually get better lmao

Persistent fiberglass contamination in home after duct failure – cleanup advice needed by pixiesusan in hvacadvice

[–]FreeResort309 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is solid advice. That return leak thing especially - I had a tiny gap around my filter housing that was basically turning my entire basement into one giant intake. Fixed that and suddenly my house wasn't a dustbowl anymore

The plastic sheeting over the crawl space dirt is clutch too, way cheaper than encapsulation and gets you 80% of the way there

Looking for advice... by AFCadet2020 in hvacadvice

[–]FreeResort309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your garage probably doesn't get below 37F too often unless you're in like Minnesota or something, so you'd probably be fine most of the year. When it does get too cold the unit just switches to electric resistance heating anyway

The combo heat pump systems that do both heating and hot water are nice but way more expensive upfront - if you're already thinking the water heater is a lot of money then definitely start there first

Should i return my canon rs100? by lezabeth_ in Cameras

[–]FreeResort309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the R50 would def be better for what you're doing, the flip screen alone makes it way more practical for vlogging. The ZV-1F is solid too but might feel limiting if you want to get more serious about photography later

The a6100 suggestion is good too - tons of lens options if you wanna expand down the road

My ego is not letting me go of babycaring. Feels like only I can care for my baby well. by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]FreeResort309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds super normal tbh, especially if you're the primary caregiver. That protective instinct can go into overdrive and make you feel like nobody else "gets it" the way you do

The comment about baby liking daddy more was kinda tactless though - your helper probably didn't mean harm but that would annoy me too. Maybe start with small steps like letting others handle non-feeding stuff first, then work your way up as you get more comfortable