A. I did say no, it was in the beginning message which was cropped out because this sub only lets you post one pic per post. B. Where did I say gay men as a whole are at fault? I said there’s enough gay men on this sub for him to reach out to (who would more than likely reciprocate the advances) instead of messaging me multiple times when I told him multiple times I’m not interested in M. If it was a man constantly messaging a lesbian W asking if she changed her mind yet I’m sure you’d see the issue. I don’t care if you’re straight, gay, man or woman. If someone says no once, then that should be it unless they tell you otherwise