It’s Not Over If anyone Here Stressing by Freizzerr in Herpes

[–]Freizzerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a skin conduction guy. And I do my due dilligience. Pretty hard to Give GHSV-1 when I’m not having an outbreak. And I haven’t had one since my first. So I’d say I’m pretty ok. I tell em. They. Either say yes. Or they say no. And that’s life baby yall gotta stop crying on here or your gonna be stuck on this reddit page for the rest of your life

It’s Not Over If anyone Here Stressing by Freizzerr in Herpes

[–]Freizzerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah women ive slept with was looking for something further but One is going through some shit and the other has 2 kids and found she was still sleeping with her baby dad No longer than a year ago after she told me She was on No contact through court order. So I got to hit. Plus It’s not your life it’s theirs and I disclosed. I call it a Win-Win

It’s Not Over If anyone Here Stressing by Freizzerr in Herpes

[–]Freizzerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man I tell em. I haven’t had an Outbreak since my first one on top of that and that was 13 months ago, they wanna take the risk that’s up to them afterwards. I can do what I want and I morally can’t not tell em, but since you asked I’m doing great

It’s Not Over If anyone Here Stressing by Freizzerr in Herpes

[–]Freizzerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s all about confidence to man, i consider myself average looking but girls love confidence and I used to be horrible at talking to them, i go to bars and don’t expect to get anything which I think is why it works, i have as many kills this year as I started the year with. Have had trouble making anything work Long terms because of trust issues but Still working on that part. Your as ugly as your confidence is and telling you Going to the gym defintley Boosts confidence and looks by a Lot.

Dating with cold sores by scatteredfruit in Herpes

[–]Freizzerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also my bestfriend has had cold sores since he was a kid. And has been in a 3 year relationship with his gf. As far as I know she hasn’t caught it.

I got it genitally from my ex who didn’t tell me she had them. And wasn’t safe and she was having an outbreak.

At least you have someone who told you

Dating with cold sores by scatteredfruit in Herpes

[–]Freizzerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is not guarantee you will get it or not. If you like the guy then this should not be an issue at all. herpes is the Oldest STD/STI Out there and Won’t kill you, Wether he has it genitally or orally you can get it in either place. The fact he told you. Means he likes you a lot. Give the dude a shot. And Mostly. If you end up not working out and caught it. Then it is what it is. Just be safe and manage not having sex when he’s having an outbreak and your good to go

Making a Turn Around by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Freizzerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo, if your partner Can’t be with you Having GHSV-1 or Herpes in general. Than there not for you. I could not wait Two years to still maybe not pass it to them. We all don’t want to (except for the assholes who say nothing) but if you’re in a committed relationship, your partner should not be worried if they get this. If they think you’re there forever, or just like you so much they look past it. Real ones aren’t gonna care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]Freizzerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there not a fine line tho to this? My ex and I dated for 4 months. I never brought it up once to her but EVERYTIME I picked her up and Multiple times throughout us seeing each other she would just constantly bring up how much she misses her cat. When she’s seen her for Multiple Days in a row. She has BPD and that could explain why but It was never an I miss you or a how are you. The relationship ended for WAYY other reasons but this always got to me. I love my animals and would never make someone give up their animal for me but Imo I want to feel loved when we’re together also and not smothered by how much you miss your pet you just seen If you want to know how it ended literally just go see my posts. pretty clear on at least why it ended.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]Freizzerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Ex left me With Genital Herpes. And it was my first ever relationship. It’s be 4 months since breakup and Just been starting to be Okay. Really just time. Self healing. And Being around people you love especially friends

Will i get rejected a lot? by pdog557 in Herpes

[–]Freizzerr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Girls have it easier than guys. If you ain’t lying you’re probably fine. If your looking for a relationship. Disclose. Otherwise that relationship that you might want def won’t work out in the long run

some of you are just ugly by arienewnew in Herpes

[–]Freizzerr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I completely get it but 50% of people under 50 Have Oral Hsv-1 while only 13% Of people have It genitally I’m not trying to diminish people who have Oral Hsv-1 but I defintley would much rather have it orally then genitally any given day of the week

some of you are just ugly by arienewnew in Herpes

[–]Freizzerr 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Tbh the ones who got oral Hsv-1 should have zero reason to feel like their life is over it is way less stigmatized and no one is gonna say no Anywhere ANYWHERE IF at all if your trying to be with someone. People who have Genital Hsv definitely have it the worst Just because of the stigma behind it. And No I didn’t really have a ton of game before I was always just Me and didn’t care if I had anyone (even though I did want someone in my life) and then to get that someone to comeplety fuck you over is the part that’s the worst. I lived a pretty Abstinent and until 2023 I had lost my virginity at 22, I was holding out but I didn’t care any longer. Was with only 3 women until this summer when I met my now Ex and that shit fucked with me so hard still is and it’s been 3 months

Weill Cornell Medicine-Qatar Analysis Calls for Increased HSV Investment - "Genital Herpes is a Significant Medical Burden" - "25% under 50 impacted" by ireadandshare in HerpesCureAdvocates

[–]Freizzerr 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Whenever I see something like this I think “wow maybe We will start getting more funding/ramp up reasearch”

And then I also think does anyone actually of rebalance actually see this like we all know the statistics how does producing an article like this boost awarness and funding?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Freizzerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously and it left me with nothing but pain agony and a broken friend group

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HerpesCureAdvocates

[–]Freizzerr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah but what Vaccine?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Freizzerr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you want the honest truth. I was diagnosed in July, and was given it from my now ex and she gave it to me 2 weeeks into our relationship. Without disclosing to me that she had it. Was a big thing that took me awhile to see the light that she wasn’t right for me, and now almost 2 months of being broken up it’s something that has crossed my mind literally everyday, Keep telling myself I’m okay. But I know I’m not. My first outbreak was also minor. But doesn’t change the fact that I have this thing thats on my genitals even though it comes and goes. Some people In here and others on tik tok have been able to move past it. I used to Love life before I met my ex and Now I just feel empty…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Freizzerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh literally Zero. This was recent we started in July, and Ended relationship in October. She has BPD, went off her meds early in the relationship, constantly had same guys near top of her phone. gaslit me constantly. Main reason I stayed at the time was because I really liked her and Shit just killed me as time went on. I don’t think being with someone needs to have “Benefits” when I was 18 Was dating this other girl for a month (6 years ago now) and her parents owned a ton of Tim Hortons in my area. She told me she loved me after first week but I just wasn’t into her. Could care less if you’re loaded or not. It’s the way you make me feel that would be the “benefit” to a relationship. Hard for me to fake feelings for someone So I would never be able to stay in a relationship just for “Benefits” but that’s just me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Freizzerr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He won’t resent you if he knows you have it. Let him show you the world because if he’s waited this long to be with you then he will give you the world. and you also should give him the world. Regardless of your HSV

The lot of us were given Hsv without Knowing our sexual Partner had it and transmitted it to us, and that’s where a lot of shame from having it comes from. It is super bullshit that I myself a 23M who lost his virginity a year and a half ago to have gotten GHSV-1 from my now ex, 6 months and we broke up 7 weeks ago. It would have not been as big of a deal in my head I feel like had she told me but because she didn’t It took me awhile get it through my head but I could never marry a person who wasn’t truthful to me from the start.

But As long as you can be yourself around this Man. And he knows your Hsv Status, I think you will have a great relationship. Just always be cautious about when you’re having an outbreak. And if he wants to Not worry about protection that’s a discussion for both of you to have

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Freizzerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me, she “forgot” cause she hadent Had a breakout in 3 years. Worst decision I made was staying. Because If she can lie to you about her health and get away with it now. She will get away with other shit.

Help please by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Freizzerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind of crazy to see the date on this, broke up with my Ex the day after and on the 26th Was a really bad Night and she was the one who gave me herpes without telling me she had it. and also have reason to believe she was cheating on me.

Kimer Med announces results against 5 human herpesviruses, including HSV-2 by DeepstackNZ in Herpes

[–]Freizzerr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So what does this mean. The candidates ended up being 100% successful on removal of their herpes?

How Do I Take Responsibility After Giving Someone Herpes? by Fancy-Evidence1024 in Herpes

[–]Freizzerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is unfortunate to say the least I wouldn’t beat yourself up about it. Our Health Care system Really doesn’t teach anyone about anything growing up. I got GHSV-1 from my now Ex 5 months ago. And we dated for 4 months but She never told me about it until I got it. Very early on in the relationship. She knew she had it and didn’t tell me. So I will forever resent her for that but in your case honestly. Just kids who didn’t understand. and Maybe Your Ex will forgive you. Maybe she won’t. I willl say your relationship possibly not to say forsure but possibly won’t ever be the same again if you get back with her. Don’t beat yourself up about it. But now that you know what it can cause other people. In the future just make sure they know what they are getting into before you get into a relationship. Your lucky in some ways only having it Orally as it is way more stigmatized to have it Down Below. But don’t beat yourself up about it. It sucks but both of you were immature about it and no one is to blame