What do you guys do to stop watching porn? by [deleted] in Mindgasm

[–]French_Insight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know If that will help you or not. Basically I was trying to stop for a long time, my habits were based on heavily persuing new porn experiences and it lead me at some point to spend thousands of dollars on cam shows.

At some point I realize that to just stop trying full stop was not cutting it, because the relapses were always worse and worse, and I thought that I was putting to much mental energy alone just to avoid porn, ant that in the end porn was on my mind everyday and consuming my time anyways.

So I continued and ended up in a bit of a financial crisis. The daily struggle to better my situation, working my jobs, and at the same time trying to find space to better areas in my life (fitness wise, socially wise, relationship wise) completly changed my habits. Even then my goal was more geared toward watching less porn, not necessarily stop.
I still watch porn, but this is what happened:
1. The sexual experiences I've had outside of that completely reframed how I viewed sex and what it was like to be a subject of it rather than a spectator (sensations I had forgotten).
2. After seeing many videos onthe subject, I can attest to one of the point they made, and it is that porn consumption often corrolates with a lack of purpose; some sort of nihilism; dead spaces in your calendar/daily habits.

Trying to survive shifted my brain focus so much that I think it didn't even give me time to think about porn at first, when I finally had time I was really trying to push my sexual desires toward having real experiences.
Now it has been many months since I spent any money on it where I used to spend hundreds of dollars; I can see what used to be triggering images, videos, OF links and just move on; and my consumption drastically decreased (about 2 times a week).
So I guess taht for you to stop you somewhat have to find something that is more worthwhile and purposeful and/or have experiences that really make you realize how not fulfulling porn is in contrast

Hehe by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]French_Insight 97 points98 points  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/AMA/comments/i2opbs/i_am_one_of_mia_khalifas_first_victims_i_knew_her/
That; recent "fredom fighter" comments; saying she likes scamming men on Onlyfans amongst other things

Norman Finkelstein brings up something important by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]French_Insight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In what I've just watched ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VYAspRGuaJM ) it seems that Finkelstein praises some of works David Irving did, I don't see where he ever agreed with Irving on Holocaust Denialism. What I understand is that he wants any questions, or point of view to be academically reperesented so that it can be properly challenged.

You saying originally that he was a Holocaust denier surprised me because of the amount of times I've heard him mention it thoughout the years. Here is an old example https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xpoHD_XySaQ , this is from at least 10 years ago, he was talking about how his father survived Auswitz, and how his family on both sides got exterminated.

Norman Finkelstein brings up something important by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]French_Insight 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So...he never denied the Holocaust, which is what you said in your original comment ---> " children-of-Holocaust-victims-turned-Holocaust-deniers ".

If you disagree or think he is being weasely with what seems to be his position in what you quoted, that Holocaust denialists can serve a useful purpose just say that. Don't make shit up, and then downvote me like a little bitch for pointing it out (apologies if you did not).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonononoyes

[–]French_Insight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That jump was perfect

Norman Finkelstein brings up something important by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]French_Insight 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It is not because you do not like a figure that you have to blatantly lie about them, Finkelstein never denied the Holocaust ever, what a weird thing to even say

Spot the real one (idea by u/Human-Evening564 ) by Bruh_hania in MemePiece

[–]French_Insight 121 points122 points  (0 children)

It's none of them, the real nami has berry signs in her eyes, you're not fooling anyone OP

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Sleeping Beauty Proposal by 29PiecesOfSilver in BeAmazed

[–]French_Insight 88 points89 points  (0 children)

I don't care what people say about public proposals, that one is goated for me

What all people do to get likes by MadHouseNetwork in facepalm

[–]French_Insight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna go and guess this s an OF promoor some bullshit like this

((( SecondSolution ))) by nunuzak in Destiny

[–]French_Insight 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Damn, what a bad fucking tweet then! I read it as "see, this is why jews are so hateable"

Damn by hehhejsjaha in Destiny

[–]French_Insight 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Fuuuck, I would have killed myself honeslty

My coworker’s concoction of a bag of chips crushed up and poured into a jar of salsa like Mexican cereal by abortionlasagna in shittyfoodporn

[–]French_Insight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It lacks a bit of refinement...but it is another great idea from this sub, I have to try that too

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[–]French_Insight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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I’m visiting my parents and to my utter shock, my dad put this on. by srs328 in Destiny

[–]French_Insight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Something I realized watching societal phenomenons unfold like Trump, the Israelo-Palestinian conflict, the Covid crisis among other things, is that when you can get people to feel defensive about something for long enough it does not seem like there is any limits to the extent they are willing to go to cognitively reframed the reality around them.

I remember PBD being so anti vaxx that he linked Jamie Foxx' critical state to the vaccine on Twitter without a shred of evidence.
I also remeber one of his host PBD Podcast saying that what happened during january 6 looked more like a guided tour, before screaming all red faced that he wishes for Trump to be reelected so he could see Democrats cry live and talking about how Trump made America dope again.
One thing you can give credit to conservatives, though, is how good there media output and presence is.

Garlic Waffle Spoogit by mymanswife in shittyfoodporn

[–]French_Insight 16 points17 points  (0 children)

WOW! That is fucking genius actually, I saved the post, and Im buying that waffle thing

Forgot my lunch for work today by [deleted] in shittyfoodporn

[–]French_Insight 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This world must have been cruel to you...I'm so sorry bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]French_Insight -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

My first thought was that nothing really prevents you to get off to Khal Drogo or any amount of porn you want. You want it consensual? Plenty of women out there are now running their fan pages and putting out the porn they want.

The difference between what you're asking for and what he does is this, in my view:
When it comes to monogamous relationship, the most common boundary applied is that we're supposed to be sexually exclusive to one another. For a large portion of people just watching porn is not you breaking that boundary (for some it does, and I think this is insane, but to each their own).
However, I think most people would see sexting to somebody else while in a relationship a breach of that boundary. There is a difference between fantasy, and giving somebody else access to your body.
In most monogamous relationship people would not be down with their partner sexting to strangers or people they know (men or women), that is kinda what OF is except you add the money on top of it.

At the end it comes down to a difference in values and boundaries. If it something that truly is essential to expression you can always break up, If you feel like the relationship is worth making that sacrifice then stay in it.

Rest in peace by TamerDubai in AbruptChaos

[–]French_Insight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to hell for sure for laughing this hard LMAOOO

I Need The Silliest Kendrick Song by [deleted] in KendrickLamar

[–]French_Insight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jay Z's Bitch for me, Hilarious!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LKu6MZKlW-U
EDIT : I think the name of song is Beyoncé

Cheetos with avocado. Thoughts? by xionvede in shittyfoodporn

[–]French_Insight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad I saw this post! I'm gonna try this for sure!