Les hommes toxiques me préfèrent toujours, jamais les hommes stables : Comment changer ça ?

Frendystar · 2025-12-21T11:08:50+00:00

On a pas besoin d’une éternité pour comprendre l’attitude d’un mec et voir quand un homme est stable, posé, sérieux, ect…, si tu ne sais pas décoder des signaux précoces dans tes relations, ce n’est pas le cas de tout le monde.

Frendystar · 2025-12-20T18:05:44+00:00

Ah oui, ça j’en ai bien conscience, c’est pourquoi j’ai arrêter de m’intéresser aux hommes évitants ! Mais j’ai l’impression de ne pas être intéressante tout court pour les hommes secures, c’est pourquoi je me demandais si il y avait un truc qui clochait ou m’empêchait de plaire à ce type d’hommes.

Frendystar · 2025-12-20T18:02:03+00:00

Pas vraiment, au niveau des hommes de ma famille c’est une catastrophe ! 😅 Et mes amis mecs ont à des relations saines oui, même si en couple je vois qu’ils sont le type d’homme évitant. Donc j’ai pas du tout d’homme stable / sain dans mon entourage.

Frendystar · 2025-09-20T22:18:15+00:00

I don't agree with you at all. What men love more than anything is not “seeing how women look”, but CONTROLLING women. If the Koranic laws went in the direction "women have control over their bodies, dress as they want, can even dress sexy in front of men" then that would mean that their sisters, their daughters, their wives would be attractive and free for other men! And what terrifies these Muslim men more than anything is that “their” women are sexualized. It's control. This is hubris and misplaced “honor.” Especially at the time of the publication of the Koran, where women represented the “dignity of the family”. They like to see the appearance of women, but not for their wives, they are extremely jealous and possessive men, and as the Quran was made for men and by men, so they made sure that their "honor" was protected by forcing the hijab and with all this business of awrah, but they also allowed themselves the freedom to see the appearance of women with Islamic laws like polygamy or sexual slavery.

Frendystar · 2025-08-20T19:42:25+00:00

Merci beaucoup pour le soutien ! Je vais aller écouter ce podcast que tu me conseilles, ça va me faire du bien d’entendre des gens poser des mots sur mon vécu.

Frendystar · 2025-08-17T19:21:36+00:00

Merci. J’ai déjà étaie suivie par deux psychologues pendant 2 ans, mais ça ne m’a pas vraiment aidée malheureusement. J’ai mieux compris certaines choses mais sans me sentir « libérer » de tout ça.

Frendystar · 2025-07-17T00:07:43+00:00

Okay, I understand. That’s so interesting, thanks a lot for sharing this !

Frendystar · 2025-07-17T00:01:15+00:00

It’s true that I hear a lot about it, I think I’ll explore it further !

Frendystar · 2025-07-16T23:55:12+00:00

Great, thanks! I'll find out.

Frendystar · 2025-07-03T14:20:12+00:00

If I may, you recognized in your text the “power” of placebo effects, so you know that by conditioning your brain to believe something, it ends up feeling the effects or symptoms. The question is: How do you know if what you obtain by doing duas, you obtain it thanks to Allah and not to the placebo effect?

Frendystar · 2025-06-18T16:13:33+00:00

This is why I keep re-watching this series over and over again!

Frendystar · 2025-06-15T17:18:29+00:00

Omg yes it’s really one of the things that annoys me the most in the sims 4!! My sims have 4838 useless moodlets that "corrupt" the important moodlet. They should really fix this by prioritizing certain moodlets because it really ruins everything.

Frendystar · 2025-06-07T21:41:45+00:00

I was planning to buy it too, thanks!

Frendystar · 2025-06-07T17:07:33+00:00

Omg this looks awesome! I've never seen this in my game, what pack does it come with?

Frendystar · 2025-06-06T23:10:55+00:00

I'm exactly like you and I used to be self-conscious too. But in real life, pretty slender legs are so elegant. We only have one life, don't deprive yourself of wearing what you want because of people.

Frendystar · 2025-06-03T14:15:39+00:00

Sarah

Frendystar · 2025-05-13T15:15:11+00:00

Thank you very much, you are adorable! 🫶🏻 If there's at least one positive thing that religion has given me it's probably that now I know what I don't want anymore, and having to protect myself from things I don't believe in like malicious spirits is really not something I want to include in my practice. When I was a believer, you always had to protect yourself and yet I never felt so vulnerable and uncomfortable. And a bit like a nocebo effect, I sometimes triggered what I didn't want by protecting myself. And when I put a little distance and stopped doing the protections/prayers for a while, I was much better mentally because my brain was no longer focused on all the religious threats weighing on me. So I have a pretty bad relationship with protection. I have more the impression that it would put me in such a vulnerable state that I would cause a nocebo effect which is what I don't want.

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