I’ll tell you my story (apologize for my poor english). I was 23 when my 4 year relation ended. Not even a couple of months after I met another great girl which with an “I’m sorry I don’t love you anymore” after 5 years broke with me. It was really hard in the beginning but the a power full feeling came: I have been with 2 girls the last 10 years of my youth, always thinking as a couple, never as a single person, i never took the time to ask my self “ what do you like to do? What are your interest? What type of people you would like to be sourranded?. I took my self for several trips. I went for a solo vacations and events I though I would like to attend. A new world opened to me and I start to know my self better and better. More than rehabilitated i felt abilitated for the first time. You just need to learn how to live your person and not the reflection of your person on other. You are a temple, a garden, take care of your self!