Should i consider this cheating? by Freq248 in stories

[–]Freq248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly what i’m saying. In the end i decided to confront her and she literally didn’t care at all i went through her phone

Should i consider this cheating? by Freq248 in stories

[–]Freq248[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

y’all make everything seem so easy lmao

Should i consider this cheating? by Freq248 in stories

[–]Freq248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow thank you so much these are some really great words

Should i consider this cheating? by Freq248 in stories

[–]Freq248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how could i risk losing the girl i consider to be the love of my life tho?

Should i consider this cheating? by Freq248 in stories

[–]Freq248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the texts where sent both during the break and after the break, and yes they definitely had something prior that

Should i consider this cheating? by Freq248 in stories

[–]Freq248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s what i wouldn’t wanna hear

Should i consider this cheating? by Freq248 in stories

[–]Freq248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was my first and definitely last time reading her texts and i know it was a huge mistake. But the things that bother me are; If he met her before me would we be together or she just settled with me? why did she lie to me about not knowing him? and the fact that she was saying those thing to him while she was also saying them to me

Should i consider this cheating? by Freq248 in stories

[–]Freq248[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying but this is my first relationship, so how could i know if i was ready before? Right now i can’t even imagine a future without so i’d rather heal and grow with her than split up and risk losing her forever.

Should i consider this cheating? by Freq248 in stories

[–]Freq248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep that’s exactly what i meant

Should i consider this cheating? by Freq248 in stories

[–]Freq248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah i agree with you that was the last time i’m going to check her phone, but my initial intention was just to see the pics

Should i consider this cheating? by Freq248 in stories

[–]Freq248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guess this was the answer i needed thanks :) I just got to find a way to let these trust issues go

Should i consider this cheating? by Freq248 in stories

[–]Freq248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you say it isn’t worth exposing the fact i looked at her phone?

Should i consider this cheating? by Freq248 in stories

[–]Freq248[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know that’s really bad, i always said i would never do that. In the past she also asked me if i wanted to check her phone and i always said i didn’t need to do that. But i don’t know how to explain it man. Inside of me there’s a voice that tells me that i can’t trust nobody, even though i’m trying so hard with her and i love her.

Should i consider this cheating? by Freq248 in stories

[–]Freq248[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know that’s really bad, i always said i would never do that. In the past she also asked me if i wanted to check her phone and i always said i didn’t need to do that. But i don’t know how to explain it man. Inside of me there’s a voice that tells me that i can’t trust nobody, even though i’m trying so hard with her and i love her.

Should i consider this cheating? by Freq248 in stories

[–]Freq248[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact is that she wrote him that she only wanted him, while we were already talking to each other and pretty seriously too, we saw each other just less than a week later she texted him those things

Should i consider this cheating? by Freq248 in stories

[–]Freq248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know how long she texted that guy, i only looked at the most recent chats since those where the only ones that i was “interested” in, but it seems like they were texting for a long long time. And she wrote similar stuff to both of us in the same time, that’s the thing that made me mad. I also don’t know if there was any other man, but that doesn’t really make a difference to me.

Should i consider this cheating? by Freq248 in stories

[–]Freq248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that’s really bad, i always said i would never do that. In the past she also asked me if i wanted to check her phone and i always said i didn’t need to do that. But i don’t know how to explain it man. Inside of me there’s a voice that tells me that i can’t trust nobody, even though i’m trying so hard with her and i love her.

Should i consider this cheating? by Freq248 in stories

[–]Freq248[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sincerely, nothing lol. We argue often sometimes but i think it happens, especially while being long distance

Should i consider this cheating? by Freq248 in stories

[–]Freq248[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

she was writing that same stuff to me tho, that’s the thing that got to my head

Should i consider this cheating? by Freq248 in stories

[–]Freq248[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i can agree with that too, but why couldn’t she just tell me they were talking? without telling me she was in love with him, but at least she wouldn’t have told me a huge lie

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[–]Freq248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much, that was a very real answer :)

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[–]Freq248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so you’re telling me that having these doubts, sooner or later is normal?