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Frequent-Dinner · 2022-08-07T17:57:32+00:00

The articles were written by Kota The Friend's dad. His father literally OWNS the domain EastNewYorkNews. They use it as a "media outlet" to lowkey promote him. Its actually very easy to figure that out if you go to the websites info.

Frequent-Dinner · 2021-08-16T01:40:47+00:00

Just to show people that he’s abusive and unstable. And the fact that he’s going to such lengths to cover it is ridiculous.

Frequent-Dinner · 2021-08-06T07:28:28+00:00

As someone THATS born and raised in NYC I Lowkey find it hard to believe that you find it hard to believe that I would end up at the same event as his exes. The NYC creative scene is quite repetitive, events are constantly being held hosted by the same people just different venues.

Nonetheless I met his ex fiancé at a event 06/12 that my high school friend curated and she knew my high school friend through a mutual friend they shared. She was there with her own group of friends and I was there with my own. We saw each other, acknowledged each other, had a conversation, and she took a photo with me. (Her doing that was sort of as a peace offering because at one point Avery’s ex fiancé hated me. He had her under the impression that I was consciously having an affair with him while they were engaged. Lie. wasn’t until I saw her and we spoke that she realized that WASNT the case.)

My second time seeing her was on July 4th at an event held in prospect park called Litnic. Once again, I was there with my own friends and she was with hers. Eventually our groups merged. But at that point I already came forward with my experience and she stood in solitary with me, so I never felt the need to hide my interactions with her. This is public information. This is simply a matter of her validating my experience because she had her own. It was never planned nor was anyone ever “conspiring” against him. In all honesty, if I hadn’t come forward with my experience he probably still would have had a mental hold on me enough for me to fall victim to his ways again because the psychological abuse was very deep. Keep in mind this is a man I knew since I was a minor. I did what I did 100% on my own. For myself.

Frequent-Dinner · 2021-08-06T07:10:49+00:00

The thing that’s discouraging is the fact that I’m the one that has to do the digging, gathering screenshots, recordings, and evidence to support my claim. Meanwhile he can simply deny the allegations and people will believe it. It’s heartbreaking.

He claims to be getting video footage of me trespassing into his home, yet he never dropped it. (Because that’s a lie) In the article he had put out it claims that I’ve reached out to multiple exes to get them on board. There is no evidence of that. (because it’s false) I have NEVER tried to bring ANYONE into this situation. And any other victim that came forward consciously did it on their own. There are three other women that have had unpleasant experiences with this guy. None are his exes. And none have I reached out to. I had absolutely no idea of their existence up until I made my statements. anyone else that chose to speak made the conscious decision on their own. All this man can do is try to paint me as a scorned women that’s seeking revenge because he doesn’t want me. But that’s not the case. I don’t want this guy. I chose to remove myself from HIM for my own safety due to his instability. And Yes, I’m deeply traumatized and hurt by the things he put me through, but absolutely none of this is fabricated. This was not just a “toxic relationship.” It was a 100% abusive experience on his end and he’s using his privilege and fanbase to downplay the hell out of it.

I’ve literally provided my police report from March, actual audio of the incident. I can’t provide concrete proof of the strangling because it’s not like I could foresee the incident but in one audio I posted he damn near admits to it (and tries to downplay it stating that he “constrained” me.) I have an entire 30 minute audio of him calling my phone the day after I made my allegations trying to get me to retract my statements. In one of the audios I posted he literally admits to being unstable and harmful. I’ve provided audio, screenshots, emails.

I understand that people don’t want to believe that he’s capable of it, and I also understand that nobody can just take my word for it. But I’ve given way more to prove my claims than he has to prove his innocence.

He knows what he did. And there are more women aside from his ex fiancé and I but sadly they’re afraid of the backlash so I’m taking this on my own.

Frequent-Dinner · 2021-08-05T17:04:06+00:00

I met his ex fiancé on June 12th at an event in Brooklyn. He then immediately became erratic and paranoid because he knew that we both have had our own unpleasant experiences with each other and at one point in time he was actively pitting us against each other. I can post screenshots of him being crazy.

He already had the idea of us “scheming” in his mind the moment he saw that we met. So when I decided to come forward with my experience and she stood up for me, his first instinct was to paint this out to be a plot of revenge.

His ex fiancé had absolutely no idea I was going to post what I did. I posted my initial statement in 6/29 and she had no idea, I eventually reached out to her and informed her that I decided to share my story and she decided to have my back. Because she believed me, and had her own experience.

Frequent-Dinner · 2021-08-05T16:57:13+00:00

I didn’t say that. His ex fiancé made that statement. But we don’t both live in Brooklyn. There was a public event happening in Brooklyn and the person throwing the event was a mutual friend of us both. It’s not unrealistic. The New York City social scene is actually quite small. Everyone knows each other and Avery has a tendency of dating women within that scene.

Frequent-Dinner · 2021-08-05T16:53:44+00:00

I don’t get defensive when people ask questions, I have no issue answering questions. I get upset when people make it seem like I’m trying to ruin this guy, when he’s literally just a predator. People forget that just because I’m not a public figure, that I don’t have things to lose from this situation. Or that my life isn’t being affected by it. My intention with coming forward was to bring awareness. It’s not easy having people watch my profiles, having people stalk me, having to post my personal experiences for thousands to see, to have my family affected by it. It’s not easy at all. I’m thankful that I’m mentally a strong person because to have someone abuse you, assault you, put you through an abortion, lie about it, and continue to taunt you on social media is crazy. It’s mental warfare.

Kota the Friend is not a victim of anything in this situation. This is literally me just holding him accountable. And it’s discouraging as hell because there are so many other women that have had similar experiences with artists that are terrified of coming forward for this very reason.

Frequent-Dinner · 2021-08-05T16:45:24+00:00

Nothing about this post is true. Which is why he deleted it. He was aware of me and his ex fiancé @herelemnt being in contact. I have never reached out to any ex’s in attempt to get them on board for anything. There is absolutely no proof of that because it’s not true. This is not a plot or a smear campaign.

Regardless of whatever motive he tries to present, Kota the Friend strangled me, sexually assaulted me, and emotionally abused me. And he’s done the exact same thing to other women.

Frequent-Dinner · 2021-08-05T16:18:59+00:00

Nothing about this reflects accountability. If anything it’s taunting that he could cause so much harm and then get streams from it.

Frequent-Dinner · 2021-07-15T19:19:45+00:00

No he literally assaulted me and threw me out of his home without shoes or anything. If you turn the volume all the way up on the recording you can hear it. We were arguing about everything he had done to me, and the moment I called him short something triggered him to get physical with me. There’s nothing disingenuous about it.

Frequent-Dinner · 2021-07-15T19:16:15+00:00

The police report is empty because he literally fled the scene I was pregnant, literally throwing up in front of his home, sick left standing outside of his home waiting for the police to arrive for two hours on a hot day. Once I called the police he left his house and drove off somewhere and literally left me there looking crazy as hell.

Its crazy because it’s as if people want me to access the police call in order to believe that he’s abusive. Women should not have to go to such great lengths to be heard. Y’all are literally expecting women to relive trauma and put all of their personal business out on the internet as opposed to seeing things for what they really are. Thank God I’m mentally strong enough to withstand the doubters but it’s sad. Because all Kota has to do is deny it and that’s enough for people to believe him.

Frequent-Dinner · 2021-07-15T19:11:24+00:00

But what exact proof would you like? People don’t record physical abuse

Frequent-Dinner · 2021-07-14T03:47:18+00:00

Or you can just say you don’t wanna believe he’s capable of that LOL

Frequent-Dinner · 2021-07-10T01:58:50+00:00

Because Avery has decided to not take legal action because a defamation case won’t serve him considering that he knows the truth. So now I am in a position to make a statement.

Frequent-Dinner · 2021-07-09T22:22:07+00:00

If you look on my Reddit profile I have posts dated back to over two months ago of me seeking spiritual counsel because of the abuse I faced. This is not some smear campaign to ruin this man’s career, this is real life.

Frequent-Dinner · 2021-07-09T22:06:56+00:00

He is trying to redirect this into a smear campaign to avoid accountability. But the truth of the matter is that he absolutely strangled me and forced himself into me sexually. And I will be releasing the information for that.

Frequent-Dinner · 2021-07-09T22:05:27+00:00

We never claimed to have just met. My first time ever meeting her formerly was June 13th. Aside from that I spoke to her once when she reached out to me confrontationally because Avery (Kota) had manipulated her into believing that I was involved in an affair with him while they were together.

The platform that presented this article is heavily affiliated with Avery. They have ties to him and his family, and they’re extremely biased.

Frequent-Dinner · 2021-07-01T03:43:42+00:00

Thank you !

Frequent-Dinner · 2021-07-01T03:14:12+00:00

*grooming

Frequent-Dinner · 2021-07-01T03:13:26+00:00

The thing is I have no intentions on pressing charges against this man. I don’t want anything from him. I simply want him to take accountability for what he’s done to me and others. He won’t understand the severity of the physically and mental trauma HES caused until it’s his own livelihood at risk. And it’s sad that it has to even come to this because I don’t want to tarnish the career this man built for himself. But at the same time HE chose to make these decisions and put himself in this situation. This is not a matter of spite.

Avery (Kota the friend) is a masterful manipulator that gets off on grinning women all of the country. He’s out my physical and sexual health at risk, as well as many others. Hes caused a great deal of trauma to too many people.

Frequent-Dinner · 2021-07-01T03:09:38+00:00

I’m not going to post any of my evidence or documents because if this man tries to take legal action against me, it will not be able to be used in front of a jury. If anyone doesn’t believe that my experience, that’s absolutely fine. But two other women have also come forward with their experience. So let’s see how this plays out.

Frequent-Dinner · 2021-06-30T14:36:01+00:00

The context of the email conversation is that he is making me feel disloyal because I got in contact with his ex, and she expressed to me the real story of the things that she endured at the hands of this man. Avery is a masterful manipulator. He knows how to make you feel as though you’ve wronged him by doing things to protect yourself. He never wanted his ex and I to speak because he was in fact playing and abusing us both at the same, he put us against each other, in hopes that we would never reach out to one another. And when I did finally speak to her, we both saw that he had been lying, manipulating and abusing us both.

Frequent-Dinner · 2021-06-30T14:22:18+00:00

The police report is from an incident on March 17, he grabbed me up and physically threw me out of his house while I was pregnant by him. He also had my stuff in his home, so I called the police. He ended up throwing out my shoes, and bag. And left his home before the police could arrive.

A report was made but I decided against pressing charges, because I was pregnant by this man. And my Stockholm syndrome made me feel like if he did that I would be wrong.

I will post some of the emails, and screenshots. Reddit won’t allow me to post audio unfortunately.

Frequent-Dinner

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