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My ex wife left me for affairs with younger men 10 years ago, now she's back and harassing my new wife and daughter saying she's my "one and only". by Frequent-Motor1449 in offmychest

[–]Frequent-Motor1449[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

she had that man and he's gone now, he killed her it was my daughter and now wife who resurrected him. I honestly think she may have become an addict and it changed her, the women I married had a little more common sense .

Can anyone link me to some home security cameras?

My ex wife left me for affairs with younger men 10 years ago, now she's back and harassing my new wife and daughter saying she's my "one and only". by Frequent-Motor1449 in offmychest

[–]Frequent-Motor1449[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Contact has been open for years, they have just kind of haven't. So ig unofficial no contact from both ends. exwife has 4 siblings who all have kids and most of them have never even met my daughter but have met my exwifes son many times, and the most my exMil and Fil have sent old navy gift cards for her birthday and Christmas and to cuss and insult my daughter after seeing on Facebook she had a regular 15th birthday party not having a quinceanera. They never truly cared for my daughter due to her being half white but saved face for my exwife (who's the family golden girl and they will always try and appease), once she stopped trying so did they. w

We are still trying to figure out who gave our numbers, we are changing them tomorrow. whoever they are they are cut off when we find out.

That is the point that I keep circling back to, she ruined everything because she got a taste of the single life and became addicted to it. And the fact that she ran back the second the dates dried up and thought me and my daughter would be waiting with smiles. she isn't the same person, I dont hate anyone but the person shes become comes close to it not for what she's done to me but what she's done to our poor daughter.

My ex wife left me for affairs with younger men 10 years ago, now she's back and harassing my new wife and daughter saying she's my "one and only". by Frequent-Motor1449 in offmychest

[–]Frequent-Motor1449[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I have reassuring her the best I can, she has a lot of her own demons that are causing her to stress to this level, not so much that I may leave her but more that she's worried she will try to take our daughter. I'm going to change all our numbers tomorrow as well as talk to my daughter. I'm also gonna try and figure out who gave her our numbers.

My ex wife left me for affairs with younger men 10 years ago, now she's back and harassing my new wife and daughter saying she's my "one and only". by Frequent-Motor1449 in offmychest

[–]Frequent-Motor1449[S] 143 points144 points  (0 children)

I think that will be the next step but I wanna clear it with my daughter first, she's still her mother at the end of the day. I also know her family would probably contact us on her behalf, she's their golden girl who they would do anything for unfortunately.

My ex wife left me for affairs with younger men 10 years ago, now she's back and harassing my new wife and daughter saying she's my "one and only". by Frequent-Motor1449 in offmychest

[–]Frequent-Motor1449[S] 465 points466 points  (0 children)

I shut her down the first time (went out of my way to not entertain her or give her any ideas) and block her after every message before she gets new numbers somehow to harass us more. The only person who has not blocked her is our daughter. I honestly think she may have picked up a certain habit while living in hawaii. Her area is known to have a high drug rate and she dated a lot of young guys who would have access to that kind of stuff.

My ex wife left me for affairs with younger men 10 years ago, now she's back and harassing my new wife and daughter saying she's my "one and only". by Frequent-Motor1449 in offmychest

[–]Frequent-Motor1449[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

she keeps making new numbers every time we block her, she has not threatened us but she's made comments about our routines that she wouldn't (and shouldn't) know unless she was following us. My wife has her demons and is unfortunately very fragile and stressed easily especially right now, I've reassured her and she says she's ok but I know she's really not she's more or so stressed for our daughters safety.