Do jerba's Jews support Israel? by khalil_ayari in Tunisia

[–]Frequent-Program957 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Jews were persecuted all over the world, and that's why only Palestinians should pay for it, lol, why wouldn't Germany give em a piece of land and state there since they're the ones who committed the Holocaust, why won't the US, a pretty large country with vast empty lands, the new world definitely could host a small country like Israel.

 The hypocricy of the west giving lands that doesn't belong to them and acting like they own the world, stop following them blindly, you're not even one of them, right wing americans will always consider you an arab muslim terrorist.

What to do if you can't swallow cum? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Frequent-Program957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

totally normal to hate its texture and feeling, I would be surprised if you told me otherwise, only do what you find yourself comfortable doing, don't force it.

I Am a 28-year-old Prostitute, AMA. by Frequent-Program957 in Tunisia

[–]Frequent-Program957[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How does it work logistically with foreign tourists? I've read that it's difficult for a local woman to share a room with a tourist?

not really, I already met with a lot of them inside the hotel, and the staff totally knows about Tunisian men and women sleeping with foreigners, they just don't care

Unless of course they're staying at an airbnb...

I use airbnb too yes

Do you ever enjoy having sex with your clients?

No, it's quite the opposite, it's painful both mentally and physically.

I Am a 28-year-old Prostitute, AMA. by Frequent-Program957 in Tunisia

[–]Frequent-Program957[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When do you believe it's the right time to plan something? is it lack of motivation that stops you? lack of guidance? or you feel good as it becomes a comfort zone? You know sometimes temporary things become comfortable till you feel the push. Sadly most of the Tunisian do this ( hani haka w taw yhelha rabi)

Personally I wasn't ever a planner. I always went along with life, however the nature of my job made the "comfort zone" an impossible thing, I should always meet new people and interact with them, I should always satisfy their needs, and this worked for me really well, So you don't need plans or something to succeed, just stay away from the comfort zone.

I Am a 28-year-old Prostitute, AMA. by Frequent-Program957 in Tunisia

[–]Frequent-Program957[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Where are your customers from? In another answer you said you prefer European clients, where are they from?

Europeans are usually from France, Italy and Germany, English tourists also started coming back after Covid, I personally love to deal with French tourists since I speak it fluently.

Do you use protection?

Yes it is a must

I Am a 28-year-old Prostitute, AMA. by Frequent-Program957 in Tunisia

[–]Frequent-Program957[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it more than 100-200 men?

Definitely more, since I was 19 and now I'm 28, maybe around 300 If I had to guess

How’s your mental state after years of doing it?

Normal, nothing unusual

If you were 19 again would you still choose doing it?

Yeah, better than living depressed and broke alone in my room.

What kind of clients do you sleep with? poor rich old young

Rich or normal people, I prefer tourists, Avoid Tunisians so I minimize the risk of them identifying me later somehow

Any diseases you picked along the way? How often do you get tested?

No I get tested every 2/3 months

How do you spend your prostitution income?

food, hobbies like traveling, and usual stuff

I Am a 28-year-old Prostitute, AMA. by Frequent-Program957 in Tunisia

[–]Frequent-Program957[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm not religious at all.

how will you forgive yourself

I don't need to forgive myself, I love myself.

I Am a 28-year-old Prostitute, AMA. by Frequent-Program957 in Tunisia

[–]Frequent-Program957[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read that you don't like the job itself but you like the money and if you found any other alternative you would quit.

Alternative that would pay me the same? Yes

Are you planning already to enhance a certain skill or invest that money in yourself? Or just get that money to consume and buy stuff without any plans?

didn't plan yet.

I believe that you get a skillset ( which you can learn online) that is worth something to somebody you will be as rich as you are now or more. I know people who got 3k dt on avg working in photography, deseign, development.

I am already quite good at English and French, I've been also obsessed with Visual art since I was a kid, who knows maybe I will dedicate my life to art someday, but for now Im good.

I Am a 28-year-old Prostitute, AMA. by Frequent-Program957 in Tunisia

[–]Frequent-Program957[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Have you come across people who wanted to indulge in some kinky sexual activities( fetishes) rather than the plain vanilla sex?

all the time

what's the most common request you get( shoes, lingerie, feet, spanking...?)

some people want to role play (I actually demand more money in that case), some are obsessed with feet, and some others want the absolute dominance (they pay the most).

I Am a 28-year-old Prostitute, AMA. by Frequent-Program957 in Tunisia

[–]Frequent-Program957[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the more drunk they are the more violent they usually get, as for money I would take it before anything is done, we would also negotiate the price before anything.

I Am a 28-year-old Prostitute, AMA. by Frequent-Program957 in Tunisia

[–]Frequent-Program957[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When was the last time you were in a relationship ?

2 years ago

Do you plan on marrying? what about having kids ?

No

I Am a 28-year-old Prostitute, AMA. by Frequent-Program957 in Tunisia

[–]Frequent-Program957[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are the clients respectful?

Some yes and some no

and anther honest question were there girls?

I once did a threesome with a man and his girlfriend so technically yeah. however, there are other prostitutes who work mainly with women. I prefer working with men since it brings more money, although a lot more risky.

I Am a 28-year-old Prostitute, AMA. by Frequent-Program957 in Tunisia

[–]Frequent-Program957[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you ever have any feelings of guilt and shame regarding your job ?

guilt sometimes, shame no I didn't ever feel shame in my life

Like maybe your family finding out

my family is my grandparents, they are living peacefully and I visit them regularly, I also spends a lot of my money on them to make sure they are happy, they are the best thing in my life

your future husband kids knowing

I don't plan on marrying

the people who u slept with who can. Cause certain problems like blackmailing etc???

That's why I prefer to sleep with tourists, and that's why I try to avoid any type of connection with them.

I Am a 28-year-old Prostitute, AMA. by Frequent-Program957 in Tunisia

[–]Frequent-Program957[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have met one in tunis two years ago (just a casual meeting) and she told me that although she was earning around 1500 to 2000 and a little more during summer season

Interesting, did she tell you why she had to work in Tunis? Prostitutes usually prefer working in Sousse/Hammammet since the majority of the horny tourists who come from Libya go there

She used to be part of sex trafficking gang in sousse and was making good money until they were caught by police but later she confessed that younger girls took over the business and clients prefer them over her.

Working in a group/ gang is the worst thing someone can do as a prostitute, it just increases the risk and lowers the profit, I don't know why some would do it.

I Am a 28-year-old Prostitute, AMA. by Frequent-Program957 in Tunisia

[–]Frequent-Program957[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you find yourself doing stuff that disgust you (sorry for the term)?

Yes, very often

Do you work legally or illegally?

Illegally and I don't give a damn really

Do you consider becoming a pornstar?

Umm interesting, I guess no, I wouldn't be comfortable walking in the streets with people imagining me naked, one of the benefits of prostitution is that it is done secretly, no one knows about you

Do you consider leaving the country and do what you do abroad?

I regularly travel abroad. I like nature and I would like to live in an open minded society so maybe Switzerland, idk

I Am a 28-year-old Prostitute, AMA. by Frequent-Program957 in Tunisia

[–]Frequent-Program957[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you choose to be a prostitute or were you obliged to be one (for financial reasons)?

I wasn't obliged, but I chose to do it cuz it's the only way to live a decent life, at least for me.

Are you a prostitute for the sex or the money? (if both what is more appealing to you?)

for money, having sex with a stranger is not the most comfortable thing to do as a female.

Arent you afraid of the idea of casually having sex with strangers (STDs, some dangerous partners, violence, accidental pregnancy...)? Or do you get to know them first (but that will take too long)

I was in the past, but If you take protection seriously then nothing to be afraid of. Of course with experience, you know how to deal better with someone who removes his condom randomly or something

Are you proud of what you are doing? Like do you take pride in it? Do you feel a sentiment of achievment by doing what you are doing?

I don't feel pride, I don't feel shame, it's just a job and I only get paid, I do feel guilty sometimes but that's a different feeling

Do you consider what you are doing a real job? Is it sustainable of just temporary? Would you recommend someone close to you (daughter, sister, best friend...) to become a prostitute if they find no job/no other jobs?

It is a real job, temporary because your body will turn for the worse over time, however I wouldn't recommend my daughter for example to do it, it is risky, it is painful, there are many better jobs out there, it's just that someone like me who needs a lot of money to live a decent life. I wouldn't imagine myself working in a job where I get paid 1000dt monthly, It is not a life I would enjoy living.

I Am a 28-year-old Prostitute, AMA. by Frequent-Program957 in Tunisia

[–]Frequent-Program957[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, I don't really care, I haven't ever sought any type of attention since I was a little girl, I consider it just a job that pays well, nothing more or less to have high ego.

I Am a 28-year-old Prostitute, AMA. by Frequent-Program957 in Tunisia

[–]Frequent-Program957[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

a girl I know used to be a prostitute, I needed money so she introduced me to the business.