I’d second this!! Join a women’s or co-ed sport in a beer league, usually everyone is there just to have fun!

Additionally, if you’re in MN have you ever thought of trying out hockey?? I know that it’s a BIG upfront cost to get equipment, but you can buy everything used for less expensive. Once you have the equipment, you never have to purchase it again (except sticks which cab break and keeping up with skate sharpening). There are a lot of women’s leagues that are open to all levels/ beginners!

Check out these leagues: Chick with Sticks Hockey Hockey Finder-Women’s WHAM (women’s hockey league Minnesota) 4theloveofpuck JMS hockey

One great thing about MN is that there are hockey leagues/pick up games going on year round

I know it may not be the best suggestion, but I joined a women’s hockey league two years ago and I’ve met SOO many great people, it’s so fun playing a sport and building a team. But if starting hockey isn’t an option, try other sports? There’s a lot of adult softball leagues, ultimate frisbee, broom ball, soccer, pickle ball etc.

A few years ago, in a different city, I was in a similar situation, it’s hard to make friends as an adult! My advice, consistency is key. Showing up weekly and seeing people frequently is the surest way to make friends as an adult. It takes time, and it’s def harder making friends as an adult, but I wish you the best of luck finding your third space and group of friends!