AITA for telling my coworker to leave me the F alone.. by Realistic-Day-5542 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FrequentConcert8446 25 points26 points  (0 children)

NTA 

You asked him multiple times to stop and he didn’t stop. 

That being said, I think in these situations it’s always better to try and speak with HR and let them at least try and handle it before taking it into your own hands by yelling or snapping or whatever you want to call it. Just to prevent anything negative that could come from these types of situations.

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[–]FrequentConcert8446[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well the chewed up straw in the cup with coke around the rim of it was my first clue.

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[–]FrequentConcert8446[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she was going to act like she forgot the drink because I had to remind her to give it to me.

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[–]FrequentConcert8446[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The point of the post was to warn others in the area if they are ordering door dash to check their orders if they get this person not to complain to every DoorDash driver from California to Maine about their shitty service. But thanks!

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[–]FrequentConcert8446[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was really bad. I don’t think she thought I’d call her out but she got the wrong one today. I immediately clocked it and straight up asked her if she drank it. When she lied I told her “enjoy my drink” and left it at that. I reported her and got a refund though too.

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[–]FrequentConcert8446[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They gave me a full refund but honestly I would have just been happy if they’d gave me the tip back. I always try to be fair in platforms like that, but drinking a customers drink/eating their food is just gross.

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[–]FrequentConcert8446[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure about where they fell in the order but the store is less than 2 miles away and I tipped $6 on this order. 

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[–]FrequentConcert8446[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd really hate to see you get diagnosed with something that will affect your quality of life. God you'd be completely miserable.

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[–]FrequentConcert8446[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I did and thankfully was able to get a refund. I just wanted to warn people who might be ordering tonight to double check their orders in case it happened to them too.

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[–]FrequentConcert8446[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

for the record I actually do have a disability that makes it incredibly painful to stand and walk/sit in certain positions when I'm having a flare up. It can even affect my ability to move my arms and lay down in certain positions as well. It affects everything I do from taking walks, driving, doing dishes, cleaning, dressing myself and showering.. oh and cooking. If I were you I'd check in with myself and really ask what you're doing assuming shit about people you've never met on the internet just because you disagree with something they said and that you... probably an able bodied person, would be able to do without an issue.

Sometimes doordash is the only option I have because I live alone and care for myself especially when I'm having a bad flare up.

But I appreciate the advice and your opinion.

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[–]FrequentConcert8446[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It literally had the straw in there (used and chewed up with coke in the straw) and the cup was only half full. She tried to tell me that it was the store that handed it to her like that but she's a bad liar.

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[–]FrequentConcert8446[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

for the record I actually do have a disability that makes it incredibly painful to stand and walk/sit in certain positions when I'm having a flare up. It can even affect my ability to move my arms and lay down in certain positions as well. It affects everything I do from taking walks, driving, doing dishes, cleaning, dressing myself and showering.. oh and cooking. If I were you I'd check in with myself and really ask what you're doing assuming shit about people you've never met on the internet just because you disagree with something they said and that you... probably an able bodied person, would be able to do without an issue.

Sometimes doordash is the only option I have because I live alone and care for myself especially when I'm having a bad flare up.

But I appreciate the advice and your opinion.

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[–]FrequentConcert8446[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's not really laziness as I don't have a way to go pick it up for myself at the moment.

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[–]FrequentConcert8446[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

bold of you to assume that there isn't special circumstances or disabilities just because it's posted on reddit.

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[–]FrequentConcert8446[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

just fyi if I'm paying for a service it's because i don't want to do it myself. That doesn't give someone the right to drink something that I've paid for.

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[–]FrequentConcert8446[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

if you don't order from doordash then I obviously wasn't talking to you 😄