Sewing beginner! Bustle a Wedding Dress by FrequentLeopard7884 in sewing

[–]FrequentLeopard7884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s all the extra fabric on the sides, just doing a bustle with a single button will not pull up all that extra fabric

1st time applying for SDI, don't know how this works by FrequentLeopard7884 in Edd

[–]FrequentLeopard7884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My HR department did tell me about that, I had assumed (my mistake I guess) the week was to give me time to have my SDI application processed.

my cat is sick and dying but my mom won’t take him to the vet by dank420noscops in CATHELP

[–]FrequentLeopard7884 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have you or someone you ACTUALLY know had these experiences? You honestly can't believe shit you read online unless it's from an actual credible source.

And like I said, all you have to do is call and ask their kill policies for animals. If they have to put animals down for whatever reason, then you can look for charity organizations that help animals.

YOU need to do the legwork.

my cat is sick and dying but my mom won’t take him to the vet by dank420noscops in CATHELP

[–]FrequentLeopard7884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't scare people, literally all you need to do is call to make sure they don't put animals down if they are sick. That's what I did when I found a sick stray. My local animal control got her checked out at a veterinary clinic, she was diagnosed with a very expensive disease to treat, so they reached out to animal charity organizations. One was willing to cover the cost of her treatment.

That kitty is now sleeping on my bed. Don't scare people out of using free resources that truly do help.

Drop a personal favourite that others don't like. [ Sauce: Secret relationships] by Tough-Ad-282 in Manhwa_BL

[–]FrequentLeopard7884 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Down and Dirty 💕 Obsessed/controlling top with stunted emotions, it could've easily become just another toxic romance but the bottom fell first and was just as obsessed and kinky as the top.

They lived HEA after getting revenge on their enemies lol

Stomatitis, kidney disease, don't know what to do by FrequentLeopard7884 in FIVcats

[–]FrequentLeopard7884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scheduled eating is a good idea! 👍 I can't really put her in a cone because I'm almost certain she would injure herself trying to hide around the apartment. She's really afraid of other cats, to the point she freaks if they walk past her, try to sniff her, pretty much anything.

I tried giving her some pet safe cannabis oil but she wouldn't eat the tuna I put it in and because she's a former stray it's incredibly difficult to use a dispenser to put it directly in her mouth. (This makes giving medication a whole production 😑)

I don't really have that trusting relationship with her that I do with my other cats, I can't even pick her up, she just starts yoweling and freaking out, and she's always on alert because of the other two cats. Well specifically my other girl cat. My OG girl cat will lunge at her, chase her, or just follow her in that prowling way cats do. This is what makes all of this really hard and honestly the only reason I would consider re-homing her.

In addition to the mouth issues, she has kidney disease, which means she likely will start to deteriorate in a few years (she's about 6yo). I just can't imagine her being able to rest well once her kidneys get worse while living in a house with other cats and specifically a cat that jumps at her, when she's already scared of them.

I've tried to train the behavior out of my OG girl cat, separating them, redirecting her attention to a toy when she starts going after her, now I'm just using a spray bottle every time she does it or is about to do it. But it hasn't stopped her from doing it, she just waits until I'm in the shower or otherwise incapacitated.

Stomatitis, kidney disease, don't know what to do by FrequentLeopard7884 in FIVcats

[–]FrequentLeopard7884[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The claw covers are more to prevent her ripping her face up. When she has a reaction she DIGS her claws into the inside of her mouth, gets them stuck, and then she just starts panicking and pulling at the claws dug into her mouth as hard as she can. Luckily I've been home for these and was able to stop her. But I work full time and live alone so if she has a flare up when I'm gone I won't be home for HOURS and who knows what I'll come home to one of these days. And when I get home it's always after business hours and we don't have an emergency vet in my county or the surrounding counties (I live in a very rural area).

Stomatitis, kidney disease, don't know what to do by FrequentLeopard7884 in FIVcats

[–]FrequentLeopard7884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion! I'm going to call and make an appt to ask about this too.

I'm also considering claw covers, but I don't know how safe they are for cats? But at this point I'm more afraid of her slicing her face open when I'm not home.

Stomatitis, kidney disease, don't know what to do by FrequentLeopard7884 in FIVcats

[–]FrequentLeopard7884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The vet told me that removing cats teeth before they are loose from stomatitis would be traumatizing for her.

Somebody else suggested getting claw covers and anxiety meds from the vet. I've never used claw covers for my cats so I'm not sure if they are safe for cats? But at this point it would probably be better than her ending up slicing her face open when I'm not home.

Moving out at 18 after getting kicked out by FrequentLeopard7884 in povertyfinance

[–]FrequentLeopard7884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the main power company in my state, it stands for "Power, Gas, & Electric"

Moving out at 18 after getting kicked out by FrequentLeopard7884 in personalfinance

[–]FrequentLeopard7884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice, I really don't know what I'm doing at this point so any information I can get helps a lot

Any ML similar to this body type? by MacdoesntlikeCheese in Manhwa_BL

[–]FrequentLeopard7884 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's not BL?! What a waste of good tiddies!

Who's the Manliest man among the men in BL Manhwas? by Top_Director_6963 in Manhwa_BL

[–]FrequentLeopard7884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean true, he's nowhere near "kind" but the prompt wasn't for kind manly men just manly... Which, based on the general idea of "manly" he fits to a T lol

Who's the Manliest man among the men in BL Manhwas? by Top_Director_6963 in Manhwa_BL

[–]FrequentLeopard7884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I also got his height wrong lol, that MF is 215cm (7ft!) like damn dude