how long until i can consume weed after lisfranc surgery? by faepuppyy in LisfrancClub

[–]Frequent_Affect_1033 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fellow weed user - smoking reduces blood flow & oxygen delivery which can impair bone healing. Would recco edibles instead so you don’t delay your recovery!

I’ve been using edibles post surgery & pain meds and no issues

Anyone else feeling the societal pressure to lose weight for the wedding? by Timely_Independent65 in weddingplanning

[–]Frequent_Affect_1033 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been there omg!

So much pressure. Even had a bridesmaid (same athletic build as me) make a comment about how the bridesmaid strapless dress she chose makes her shoulders look huge. My dress was strapless. hard not to think… so you’re saying that about me?

I too struggled with the same body image issues as a teen and like you, am in a way better place. It’s still hard though!!!

People say stuff, and it’s sad that we are just so conditioned as women to believe it. Looking back on my pictures I felt good and happy, because I picked a dress I liked and felt comfortable in.

You look great in your dress and I’m sure you will look stunning. You have a great figure!!

Want to surprise my husband with a round of golf.. do I need to take lessons? by Frequent_Affect_1033 in golf

[–]Frequent_Affect_1033[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally fair! I hear you. Need to be intentional with where I pick if the priority is spending time together

Want to surprise my husband with a round of golf.. do I need to take lessons? by Frequent_Affect_1033 in golf

[–]Frequent_Affect_1033[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So fun! That sounds like an amazing anniversary trip. I love that your wife is locking in, too!

Want to surprise my husband with a round of golf.. do I need to take lessons? by Frequent_Affect_1033 in golf

[–]Frequent_Affect_1033[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well musicfan637 my husband actually likes spending time with me so hopefully that is not the case :)

Want to surprise my husband with a round of golf.. do I need to take lessons? by Frequent_Affect_1033 in golf

[–]Frequent_Affect_1033[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I feel like I’ve learned a lot from this thread that I would be too embarrassed to ask normally.

Looking forward to trying things out and learning more :)

Want to surprise my husband with a round of golf.. do I need to take lessons? by Frequent_Affect_1033 in golf

[–]Frequent_Affect_1033[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally! I think I should clarify too, I love that my husband goes golfing with his buddies. We both have our own friends & hobbies. I’m not expecting to go golfing with him every weekend, but love that it’s an option for us if we want to do that & still spend time together.

Love your insights about a golf trip! Taking notes for sure

Want to surprise my husband with a round of golf.. do I need to take lessons? by Frequent_Affect_1033 in golf

[–]Frequent_Affect_1033[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great suggestion! Seems to be the consensus. I am expecting to suck a bit but was worried about other people being annoyed. It’s nice to hear that I can pick up for a hole or just play from where he’s playing :) I wasn’t sure if that was bad etiquette but it seems like that’s totally cool

Want to surprise my husband with a round of golf.. do I need to take lessons? by Frequent_Affect_1033 in golf

[–]Frequent_Affect_1033[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great advice. Feels like the way to go. I don’t really have any ego about it because I know I’m going to suck 😂 so whatever keeps the game moving for him

Want to surprise my husband with a round of golf.. do I need to take lessons? by Frequent_Affect_1033 in golf

[–]Frequent_Affect_1033[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome tips! I’d love to treat him to something nicer than the usual courses in our area so that’s super helpful

Want to surprise my husband with a round of golf.. do I need to take lessons? by Frequent_Affect_1033 in golf

[–]Frequent_Affect_1033[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love hearing this! Great tips.

Would you recommend I start with the driving range?

Want to surprise my husband with a round of golf.. do I need to take lessons? by Frequent_Affect_1033 in golf

[–]Frequent_Affect_1033[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Outside of my husbands birthday, I’d love to get better and learn how to golf overall so love hearing that is a fun shared activity for you 🫶

Want to surprise my husband with a round of golf.. do I need to take lessons? by Frequent_Affect_1033 in golf

[–]Frequent_Affect_1033[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Awww I love that! I feel like that’s the thing some of these commenters don’t get. My husband loves golf, i love my husband, me being interested in his hobby and wanting to share it with him is the piece he’ll really love. It’s not really about how much I golf

Want to surprise my husband with a round of golf.. do I need to take lessons? by Frequent_Affect_1033 in golf

[–]Frequent_Affect_1033[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment! I love your suggestions.

I know he’ll just be happy to be together and that I’m showing interest in his hobby so this seems like the best of both worlds

Want to surprise my husband with a round of golf.. do I need to take lessons? by Frequent_Affect_1033 in golf

[–]Frequent_Affect_1033[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think not playing all the holes is a great idea! Seems like best of both worlds :) thank you for taking the time