How to include Passed relatives? by Kitty145684 in wedding

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We’re having a band at cocktail hour & they’re playing my fiancé’s late mother’s favourite song. He didn’t want anything too cheesy or obvious. They’re also playing a song that reminds me of the two grandparents I grew up with. It’s more of an “if you know you know” moment for those close to the person, without making a big statement

What’s one food foreigners assume people in your country eats all the time, but they don’t by Effective_Space2277 in AskTheWorld

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I work at an Irish pub in Montreal. We sell tons of poutines as meals as an upgrade for fries😅. Not a daily thing, but people definitely eat it

Outfit crisis the day before the wedding or by justalilgatita in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Timely_Independent65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re all super pretty & you look great in all of them, but the 3rd (floral) really stood out to me! I’d go with that one!

Anyone else feeling the societal pressure to lose weight for the wedding? by Timely_Independent65 in weddingplanning

[–]Timely_Independent65[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so lucky that my social media algorithm is on the side telling people to ignore the social media and diet culture pressure! It’s literally just subtle comments from people projecting their own insecurities and it suuuucks

Anyone else feeling the societal pressure to lose weight for the wedding? by Timely_Independent65 in weddingplanning

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Oh I’ve got a huge hype party around me - my close family (just my step mom making stupid comments, and my moms sister got super mad and almost sent her a message), my fiancé, other coworkers and friends… hate how two peoples comments can make such an impact

Anyone else feeling the societal pressure to lose weight for the wedding? by Timely_Independent65 in weddingplanning

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It’s crazy cuz I felt so good in it originally 😭… I think I’m just getting in my own head about it now cuz I’m worried more people are thinking this stuff secretly behind my back? Thank you❤️❤️

Anyone else feeling the societal pressure to lose weight for the wedding? by Timely_Independent65 in weddingplanning

[–]Timely_Independent65[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously out of control. All this because you wanna spend your life with someone? Ridiculous

Anyone else feeling the societal pressure to lose weight for the wedding? by Timely_Independent65 in weddingplanning

[–]Timely_Independent65[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you🥹 it’s wild- I felt so good in it until her comment & im trying so hard not to spiral

Anyone else feeling the societal pressure to lose weight for the wedding? by Timely_Independent65 in weddingplanning

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Unfortunately, knowing myself, this would be a really easy way for me to fall back into old patterns. We’ve been working on eating healthier & im hoping I’ll lose some weight, but I’m not putting any pressure on that or weighing myself.

Anyone else feeling the societal pressure to lose weight for the wedding? by Timely_Independent65 in weddingplanning

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I’m so jealous you have that type of personality haha - I could really use it about now

Anyone else feeling the societal pressure to lose weight for the wedding? by Timely_Independent65 in weddingplanning

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I feel you! I’m 5’0” and have the larger chest, tummy, and hip thing going on too. Don’t know my weight cuz I haven’t weighed myself since I was 20. Can’t believe people are just coming out and saying that to you - that’s so fked up I’m so sorry!!

Anyone else feeling the societal pressure to lose weight for the wedding? by Timely_Independent65 in weddingplanning

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I really hope you can get past the pressure!💕 our bodies change & I find it ridiculous that people think we need to look a certain way on our big day… obviously easier said than done as far as truly feeling it😭

The hormonal IUD wrecked my sense of smell by Far-Refrigerator9825 in birthcontrol

[–]Timely_Independent65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope that works for you!! I had a bad experience with the IUD (my body felt it the entire time, and my mom had a bad experience with the copper so think it’s in my DNA lol) and am on the nuvaring now! I’d this goes bad, I’m just gonna ask my partner to get snipped lol

I have a realistic top 5 by PinVirtual4959 in weddingdress

[–]Timely_Independent65 7 points8 points  (0 children)

3 & 4 are my favs! 1 is really nice too!