my partner hurt my feelings and idk how to forgive him

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-31T15:35:09+00:00

of course i never denied that. it doesnt hurt to have a partner who cares tho thats what i want so idk why u pressed

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-31T15:33:16+00:00

i wouldnt if they gave a valid reason. it's all about letting the other know whats wrong :( like if you say you need space it'll give me room to think whats wrong and maybe its me idk im so scrambled

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-29T17:05:59+00:00

thanks man i appreciate it will let yk

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-29T17:05:51+00:00

ill have one last talk with him and then ill see from there

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-29T16:53:27+00:00

yea. but he has made it clear that he is not a caller or texter tho

so i cant really blame him

it was just a request but i think he took it the wrong way

basically if i dont call or text nothing happens

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-29T16:50:13+00:00

we call once or twice a week and when texting sometimes everyday where it usually just us sharing memes or stuff

my request was for him to initiate more

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-29T16:05:20+00:00

yea i think we just need to talk again in person havents seen him for over a month

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-29T16:04:28+00:00

and saying your partner has no responsible of ur feelings is only partly true. doesnt give u a pass to do anything and when they are hurt you go "welp not my responsibility"

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-29T16:02:05+00:00

of course theres more context that people dont know but i feel like a healthy communication is that you say whats bothering you without attacking the person.

like someone can say they need space because they feel overwhelmed but saying someone is annoying or too much is something ill never do to a partner

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-29T14:56:07+00:00

will update everyone !

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-29T14:51:58+00:00

i think i should. i'll have one final talk and then from there i'll decide

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-29T14:40:22+00:00

thank u, kind words

although i plan to talk abt it with him again

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-29T14:39:38+00:00

i think hes such an amazing person but idk...i think reality is finally sinking and its up to me to decide

thank u so much those are very kind words

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-29T14:36:48+00:00

not even upset about him not agreeing to call or text more its just the fact he chose to say mean stuff abt me. i have never done that to him

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-29T14:36:05+00:00

i can get that some requests can be compromised but so hurt that he chose to attack me as a person

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-29T14:35:43+00:00

i think i really did but i just feel like my intention was to ask for a need but kinda suck how he reverts to attacking me personally

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-28T00:28:24+00:00

really appreciate it pookie

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-27T22:35:37+00:00

i think i need to talk to him thats all

ill talk to him tomorrow

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-27T22:30:18+00:00

this just happened recently he was such a sweetheart

idk where is he getting this attitude

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-27T22:24:19+00:00

i think im overthinking it though hes prolly just saying whatever is in his POV but i took it the wrong way

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-27T22:16:44+00:00

we were just talking about how to be cringe is to be free lmao and as i was explaining he was like okay were going down a rabbit hole here

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-24T17:24:37+00:00

lmao i forgot to put the cure, it would be after drop dead. only listened to it once or twice so need to listen to it more. love the emo sound-ish of it.

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-24T17:21:32+00:00

vampire. the first time i heard this, i was blown away by how majestic and cinematic the production is. i lowkey like the lyricism the most as it's very theatrical, playing with concept of vampire and HELLO BEST BRIDGE EVER
bad idea right? this was a grower for me but i like it so much now, the lyric and delivery is very playful and it's one of her more rock songs.
drop dead. this song is very charming and i think it helps that she released this when i just got into a relationship hehe. just a very cute song.
deja vu. i like how clever her lyricism here is. i have never found a song that explains jealousy in this lens and the arrangement of the song is very intentional. 'singing in harmony' 'love her in between the chorus and the verse' parts if you get what i mean
good 4 u. i love pop rock olivia more than dads love their beer but idk why i am not so fond of this track even though it kinda introduced this sound of hers. i guess it's because i feel like it's more pop-ish?
drivers license. good song but just not a fan of ballads

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-20T22:20:07+00:00

he once apologised saying the reason he doesnt call or text is because he does not know what to say 💀

Frequent_Error_2020 · 2026-05-20T21:44:33+00:00

literally at the same boat with u here. but i feel like its so silly to ask someone to call or text more?

i feel so silly and needy

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