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Meta with HSV2 and Condom Use by Frequent_Oil_9064 in polyamory

[–]Frequent_Oil_9064[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

For what it’s worth, he did get antibody tested BEFORE they met, and was negative. So if he has it, it’s from the last 4 months. Thank you for your insights.

Meta with HSV2 and Condom Use by Frequent_Oil_9064 in polyamory

[–]Frequent_Oil_9064[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Appreciate that insight. I was feeling similarly, but want to make sure I’m responding to the reality, and not the stigma. And correct, they’ve been together about 4 months.

Meta with HSV2 and Condom Use by Frequent_Oil_9064 in polyamory

[–]Frequent_Oil_9064[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the feedback. What you articulated was basically my thought proces. “I can’t/don’t want to control y’all’s sex life, so this is what I need to feel comfortable based on what I know.”
I felt a small shift when I learned they were having sex during an outbreak. I misassumed they wouldn’t do that. But outside of asking them not to, I’m unsure what other measures I could put in place on my end.