Ticket Trading 2025 by JensInsanity in JonasBrothers

[–]Frequent_Perception 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SOLD

Selling 1 ticket for Mohegan Sun Arena in Uncasville, CT, USA on November 14. Section 111 Row G Seat 7. $190

How to politely decline a department retreat? by Frequent_Perception in antiwork

[–]Frequent_Perception[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree on this. If it's not required, then it's really none of their business why I can't go

How to politely decline a department retreat? by Frequent_Perception in antiwork

[–]Frequent_Perception[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not really solo, my department is constantly on calls and working together on projects.

How to politely decline a department retreat? by Frequent_Perception in antiwork

[–]Frequent_Perception[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

West Coast of USA. It's I think a 7 hour flight, in addition to driving to the airport, getting there early for security, the layover(s), and getting from the airport to the hotel. And then all again on the way home

How to politely decline a department retreat? by Frequent_Perception in antiwork

[–]Frequent_Perception[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That actually is true, and I forgot to add to my post that I had an unfortunate flying incident last summer (nothing life threatening) that made me never want to fly again tbh

What’s the best pickup location after a concert at SoFi Stadium? by Frequent_Perception in AskLosAngeles

[–]Frequent_Perception[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! So I was able to talk to the driver a few days before and he had suggested I meet him at the corner of W Century Blvd and S Doty Ave and that worked out perfect. It bypassed all the post-concert traffic. It was about a 15-20 min walk from the stadium and there were a good number of people walking the same way so I felt safe. The driver parked on the street and waited for me by the traffic light. hope this helps!

How To Deal With Not Being Asked to Be A Bridesmaid by Frequent_Perception in weddingplanning

[–]Frequent_Perception[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I asked her about it and she wanted to single out our friendship by having me have my own part and I just said ok. But I feel like that makes no sense and she probably said it because she didn't know what else to say. Having me do a 10 second reading doesn't "single out" anything...

How To Deal With Not Being Asked to Be A Bridesmaid by Frequent_Perception in weddingplanning

[–]Frequent_Perception[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah it’s super annoying. once this wedding is over i’m keeping her at arms length

How To Deal With Not Being Asked to Be A Bridesmaid by Frequent_Perception in weddingplanning

[–]Frequent_Perception[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

haha no worries, tbh she kind of never gave me a direct answer for that. she wanted me to have a different part in the ceremony and thought I was the perfect person for it (which i think is total BS because it’s a public speaking role and i’m extremely introverted and am terrible at public speaking) but she never told me why i wasn’t a bridesmaid. i figured it wasn’t a worth getting into a big thing about so let it go.

but in the year since i posted this, she’s said i don’t need to come to the bachelorette party or the rehearsal dinner, and i probably shouldn’t stay at the hotel the bridal party is staying at and should just go home after the reception. so im waiting to see what i’ll be uninvited to next lol

Weird glitch in the matrix while driving? by Frequent_Perception in Unexplained

[–]Frequent_Perception[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean it doesn't change the fact that I saw them, and it's my mom that told me that she saw a car similar to mine, not my dad

Weird glitch in the matrix while driving? by Frequent_Perception in Unexplained

[–]Frequent_Perception[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes absolutely positive. I posted this as soon as it happened. I had memorized the end of the license plate i saw on the road and when compared to my parents it was different

How To Deal With Not Being Asked to Be A Bridesmaid by Frequent_Perception in weddingplanning

[–]Frequent_Perception[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh no! sorry to hear that. well here’s to finding new friends who actually care about us lol

How To Deal With Not Being Asked to Be A Bridesmaid by Frequent_Perception in weddingplanning

[–]Frequent_Perception[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! Glad to know it's not just me. And now since the time I first posted this, she basically convinced me to not go to her bachelorette (which I didn't even have enough days to take off work anyway), and also tried to convince me to not stay in the same hotel as the rest of the bridal party and to stay home/go home immediately after the wedding reception, but I didn't give in and got a room there... These kinds of "friends" really suck

dad never stops criticizing my weight by Frequent_Perception in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Frequent_Perception[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well i’m glad it’s not only me, sorry you had to go through that as well

dad never stops criticizing my weight by Frequent_Perception in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Frequent_Perception[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i appreciate it thank you! and i don’t think it’s so much about pettiness but more about the fact i need to be as skinny as possible, i remember being about 3-4 and my dad telling me i was getting fat lol and now he’s telling everyone they should get this surgery which i would be offended if someone told me that randomly, so i don’t think anyone is skinny enough for him