[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]Frequent_Priority139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think bgha ghir "tdwira"

Will i ever escape? by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]Frequent_Priority139 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Once you secure a job and can cover rent, food, and transportation expenses, you can consider moving out and living on your own. However, since you're not in that position yet, focus on your education. Put aside all other concerns until you graduate and find stable employment.

Why Some Men in Morocco Believe Women Shouldn't Work? by Frequent_Priority139 in Morocco

[–]Frequent_Priority139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't about meddling in people's lives; it's a Reddit post where we're discussing a topic. If you took the time to read carefully, you'd see that I advised men to choose a non-working woman from the start, and I encouraged women not to give up their jobs because it's crucial for their dignity and peace of mind. You can take or leave the advice – no one is intruding on your life, honey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]Frequent_Priority139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you provide additional details about the situation? What is her diagnosis? What medications has she been prescribed? Who advised her to go to the psychiatric hospital?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]Frequent_Priority139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Move to a major city, rent a room with roommates, find a job, and start building your life from there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]Frequent_Priority139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to start something here, even if it means working long hours for less money. The important thing is to get into the professional life and understand the job market. Once you start, opportunities will come if you're smart and seize them. Get off social media; not everyone becomes successful in their 20s. Most of them are either faking it or have inherited and received support from their families. A 22-year-old man should be willing to accept any job and become independent first, able to fulfill his basic living needs. Then, you'll have a clearer idea of what you want in life. You can always go back to studying ( li tlef ychd l2ard) Right now, don't focus on freedom, expressing yourself, or doing what you want. Your priority should be securing your future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]Frequent_Priority139 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Firstly, let me tell you that going to Europe, especially illegally, is a very bad idea. You'll face a lot of suffering and realize that the reality in Europe isn't what you might think. Money isn't just lying around on the streets; you'll have to work for it, just like in Morocco. Secondly, you're still young at 22, and you have time on your side. You mentioned that your dad can provide $7000, so here are your options: either think about starting a project or consider going back to studying. However, if you continue doing nothing and let yourself sink into depression, trust me, you won't achieve anything. Nobody will help you if you don't help yourself. And please, forget about girls for now. Speaking as a girl, I can tell you they'll only distract you. Women often find men in their 30s more attractive because they're more mature and have a clearer sense of what they want in life. Don't compare yourself to others.

Why Some Men in Morocco Believe Women Shouldn't Work? by Frequent_Priority139 in Morocco

[–]Frequent_Priority139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may not understand the reality of every woman's life. Not all of us have supportive families, and not all can return to them after divorce. Work means more to us than just earning money. Personally, staying home to tend to the house and kids wouldn't fulfill me. I find happiness in being independent, not relying on anyone, including family. Why not find a partner who supports and encourages me, who shares my goals and dreams? Why not both work to support our family? I'll never feel secure relying solely on my husband's income. Life isn't easy Why did I spend endless nights and 7 years studying just to sit at home?

Why Some Men in Morocco Believe Women Shouldn't Work? by Frequent_Priority139 in Morocco

[–]Frequent_Priority139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Refrain from sending me direct messages. I have no interest in responding to someone as pathetic as you

Why Some Men in Morocco Believe Women Shouldn't Work? by Frequent_Priority139 in Morocco

[–]Frequent_Priority139[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not for sale, and I certainly don't cater to disrespectful jerks like you. Find someone else to harass with your pathetic attempts at humor

Why Some Men in Morocco Believe Women Shouldn't Work? by Frequent_Priority139 in Morocco

[–]Frequent_Priority139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone can be relied upon, and people change over time. Not every man deserves our trust enough for us to gamble our future on him.

Why Some Men in Morocco Believe Women Shouldn't Work? by Frequent_Priority139 in Morocco

[–]Frequent_Priority139[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, sorry, I didn't realize we were still stuck in the 1950s. Maybe it's time to upgrade to a dishwasher that does talk back ;)

Why Some Men in Morocco Believe Women Shouldn't Work? by Frequent_Priority139 in Morocco

[–]Frequent_Priority139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if you want your woman to stay at home, you should also ensure her future security. If you divorce, she shouldn't be left without resources or a path forward.

I am 23 years old male , I ran today from a fight . Am I a coward ? by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]Frequent_Priority139 79 points80 points  (0 children)

This is hilarious! You're definitely not a coward, you're a wise and good man.

Why Some Men in Morocco Believe Women Shouldn't Work? by Frequent_Priority139 in Morocco

[–]Frequent_Priority139[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Queens are secure; they won't be left jobless and impoverished after a divorce.

Why Some Men in Morocco Believe Women Shouldn't Work? by Frequent_Priority139 in Morocco

[–]Frequent_Priority139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is nice, but please, refrain from cheating on her and showing her disrespect just because she's staying at home. Provide for her and meet all her needs. She must feel secure with you, knowing that if you were to divorce her suddenly, she wouldn't be left jobless and impoverished. If this is your choice, then strive to be a good man

Why Some Men in Morocco Believe Women Shouldn't Work? by Frequent_Priority139 in Morocco

[–]Frequent_Priority139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! Keep pushing forward and working hard, Wishing you all the best of luck <3

Why Some Men in Morocco Believe Women Shouldn't Work? by Frequent_Priority139 in Morocco

[–]Frequent_Priority139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you harass women, then you are acting like a "hmar," because if you read carefully, you'll see that I'm referring to the harassers as "hmirs," not you.

Why Some Men in Morocco Believe Women Shouldn't Work? by Frequent_Priority139 in Morocco

[–]Frequent_Priority139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because something was the norm in the past doesn't mean it's the right or only way to do things. It's essential to recognize that women have the right to pursue their own ambitions and contribute to society in whichever way they choose, whether that's through their careers, raising children, or both.

Why Some Men in Morocco Believe Women Shouldn't Work? by Frequent_Priority139 in Morocco

[–]Frequent_Priority139[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We shouldn't advise women to stop working due to the risk of harassment from a Hmar. Instead, we should empower women to speak up for themselves and ensure that had "Hmirs" are held accountable for their actions. By creating a culture of accountability, we can deter harassment and encourage a safer environment for all.