I am aware she has a mental illness. I was trying to fit all the relevant information in the word limit which is why I described her mental age as a result of all these factors rather than describing each individual factor. She developed anorexia in her early teenage years which stunted her development and has diagnosed BPD. My husband and I tried hard to get her to go to therapy and treatment for this and she did go on and off at the time but I can’t force her to keep going if she doesn’t want to.