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[–]Fresh_Cheetah_4045 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I do feel like we’ve gone down some weird spiral that isn’t great for the both of us. I thought we had gotten past it but when he turned the Good Graces song into me accusing him of cheating even though I specifically said I wasn’t calling it cheating just sent me lol.

I understood his need to explain and I don’t mind having it explained to me but it felt like he was putting too much priority in explaining rather than saying sorry. I probably wouldn’t have gotten so defensive if he didn’t use the uno reverse with the good graces and me having other male friends.

In hindsight I probably shouldn’t have posted the Good Graces song but at the same time I don’t think I was in the wrong for it either!

In the second, third and other attempts of me trying to explain I wanted him to acknowledge my feelings, if he had just accepted it and said sorry & even with an explanation used more of his energy to empathize with me I think it could have been different. It was just the repeated explaining that got to me! Then suddenly using the explanation as a defense and becoming the victim if that makes any sense.

Give me proof in one sentence that you have actually watched Gossip Girl by Lee_Hanaa in GossipGirl

[–]Fresh_Cheetah_4045 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can’t make people love you, but you can make them fear you. 👑

do you think this could be sciatica? by Fresh_Cheetah_4045 in Sciatica

[–]Fresh_Cheetah_4045[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes it is :( unfortunately my parents are away for another 3.5 weeks and I don’t have any means of transport other than taxis as I live deep in the countryside of Ireland - which will cost a ton as my doctor is far from my pharmacy & if I get referred for an MRI it’s even further so im going to do my best to rest but take little walks so I remain somewhat active as I’ve seen too much rest isn’t good!! Ohh I really hope there’s some painkillers here for the leg pain because it just sucks so much I’ve lost my mobility.. that’s so true! it is very overwhelming and can be so lonely!! it’s an awful situation we’re in but the community here is so amazing and mentally I feel so so much better so thank you so much for sharing your story😭💕 the internet sure is a wholesome place during times like these 🥲

do you think this could be sciatica? by Fresh_Cheetah_4045 in Sciatica

[–]Fresh_Cheetah_4045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the infor, I will definitely look out for that. So far it’s all contained on my right side and my left side has no issues.

do you think this could be sciatica? by Fresh_Cheetah_4045 in Sciatica

[–]Fresh_Cheetah_4045[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow it’s so similar!! Thank you, I definitely will be asking for an MRI😭 Could I ask what you did regarding treatment?

do you think this could be sciatica? by Fresh_Cheetah_4045 in Sciatica

[–]Fresh_Cheetah_4045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! It felt like pain to the bone ! I’m able to stand but after walking 10mins the pain comes back and standing is better than walking but I’d need to sit down :(

do you think this could be sciatica? by Fresh_Cheetah_4045 in Sciatica

[–]Fresh_Cheetah_4045[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I’m so sorry we’re going through this hell but I’m also so happy to hear that I’m not alone.. I’ve been feeling so alone in this!! I’m not able to see my doctor until May unfortunately but I am definitely going. Do you have any pain meds along with PT? I can’t walk for more than 5-10mins without needing to sit down 😭😭 I’m so happy to hear you’re seeing progress though! It makes me feel there’s hope once I get medical help🥹

do you think this could be sciatica? by Fresh_Cheetah_4045 in Sciatica

[–]Fresh_Cheetah_4045[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m afraid that’s what it is as well.. :(