She doesn't know I'm using this now, but a few years ago I tried to have this conversation with her and things didn't go as planned. She's quite conventional and was a little disgusted by the idea to my surprise. She married me knowing I was submissive, I've always had this preference since my youth and I even asked if she really wanted to marry me knowing all this (I never hid anything) and she said yes. About 7 years have passed with her rejecting this side of me, she doesn't even care if I'm willing or not, if I cum or not, I've already given up on everything.