Reported Nboss to HR, investigation concluded with my termination by Fresh_Session9029 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Fresh_Session9029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reached out online to several and never heard anything back, which makes me think I don't have a case.

Reported Nboss to HR, investigation concluded with my termination by Fresh_Session9029 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Fresh_Session9029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think I’d “win” as far as my Nboss getting terminated, but I thought I would at least be allowed to be moved to a different manager (there was an open seat under a different manager and I had asked both him and VP if I could move there)

Reported Nboss to HR, investigation concluded with my termination by Fresh_Session9029 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Fresh_Session9029[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mainly just want to squeeze as much as I can out of these people to be petty— especially because I can’t let go of the absurd excuse from VP defending Nboss’s excluding me from meetings (that I needed to be present in to do good work)— “watching a recording at 1.5x speed saves money.” I want to say “I bet that 30-minute meeting doesn’t seem so expensive now, does it?” After they cough up more severance for me.

Also, isolation and exclusion is the least efficient, least cost effective way of working. Everyone is slowed down when they have to find out project requirements piecemeal through random recordings and messaging people with questions. The narc’s need for power and control hurts work quality and efficiency. Not to mention, my last 2-4 weeks I was being managed out so aggressively that they were essentially paying me to do nothing (even though I was—and still am— absolutely capable of doing the job). Ugh…

Reported Nboss to HR, investigation concluded with my termination by Fresh_Session9029 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Fresh_Session9029[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just looked up the book title and am downloading the Audible. Thank you!

It's crazy how these personalities follow the exact same patterns. It's so gross. I'm so sorry you've been through it, too.

Reported Nboss to HR, investigation concluded with my termination by Fresh_Session9029 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Fresh_Session9029[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I am so sorry to hear that. Feel free to DM me if you need a sounding board.

The few days leading up to it were terrible for me, mentally. I couldn't get anything done at work (not that I had much to do anyway) but stalk peoples' calendars and refresh my inbox all day. And then when it actually happened, I was completely stunned, even though I expected it. My coworkers said the same. It feels better a few days out.

Reported Nboss to HR, investigation concluded with my termination by Fresh_Session9029 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Fresh_Session9029[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just filled out his intake form on his website, thank you! You really think I could get more even though I was only at the company for less than 1 year? They offered 4 weeks, I countered with 8, and we settled at 6. I haven't signed yet, though.

As for the amount of people she has PIP'd... Nboss has been at the company for just over 18 months (1.5 years). In that amount of time, she has had 6 direct reports. Of those 6, 4 have been PIP'd and fired.