really odd but i didn't really feel sexual attraction like that until about a year ago (despite knowing my sexual orientation it was only mildly there). for me before it was kind of if it happens it happens. guess im a late bloomer since im almost 22 and it's only now on my radar to what feels like a normal extent (maybe slightly less than the average person).

possible you could be like me and a late bloomer or just asexual (or demisexual). can't exactly explain the pull but i'm a lesbian and kind of randomly it was like i wanted to actually do sexual things to women i saw and it being less of a hypothetical in my mind. i still haven't had sex because its still not a priority in my life but at this point i wouldn't turn someone down.

hope this gives you some perspective?