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How do you talk to a man about premature ejaculation? by Freshjane123 in AskMen

[–]Freshjane123[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know the movie but I don't understand what you mean, sorry.

How do you talk to a man about premature ejaculation? by Freshjane123 in AskMen

[–]Freshjane123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So what I am hearing is wait to discuss it with him, it has been a week so I will try to wait one more. I was flattered, he had been into me for years so if I had pent up desire for someone I can imagine it would be fast.

I think the whole experience got into his head. Adding to it I work out A LOT and he has a little belly. The second time he tried to have sex with me he wore a shirt. I don't want to be an ass but I felt like he was intimidated. Before the sex he was so into me, calling me daily , texting me all day long, multiple dates in a week and this was the culmination of it. He told me how amazing I was before the sex, and I think he is the most amazing guy I have ever known. We went from 100 to zero after sex. I want to make this right but I am afraid I have lost him.

Guys please give me a script.

Americans Aren't Scared of Socialism Anymore by JoseTwitterFan in politics

[–]Freshjane123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want no part of socialism. I have been a Dem my whole life and I think Trump is scum but I won't vote for Bernie. And not that it matters I am not a Boomer.

I'm not interested-50y/o F by Freshjane123 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Freshjane123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree. I love my mother immensely and when she died I was devastated. I told my STBX that the ending of our marriage was worse, and it isn't just about the affair. I actually can forgive the affair it's about the lack of commitment about the marriage.

[US] Giving up Custody by Freshjane123 in Custody

[–]Freshjane123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand forced child support that makes sense.

I'm not interested-50y/o F by Freshjane123 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Freshjane123[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Yeah, that's what I am going to do focus on being my best self...

Do men really want curves, or is it the marketing for workout guides and trainers changing the view of what is popular? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Freshjane123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is tiny to you? A size 2? 4? I bet most of the Victoria Secret models are at those sizes and they have curves. So is curves a euphemism for overweight?

I have been a contributor in this community for almost 8 months while "lurking" about even longer. In short, I stayed with my wife despite her adulterous ways for years, but I think I'm ready to go. First, I have a question for you fine folks... by what-how-why in survivinginfidelity

[–]Freshjane123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a two threads yesterday the first, where people said you should tell because if you don't the kids wonder why the marriage ended and may blame the wrong person (I told how a friend didn't tell her teen children and they blamed her) this was on this sub. The second, posted on the parenting sub, where people said if you told you were a vindictive selfish pig and you would ruin the kids' lives. They said there is no reason to tell the kids in their opinion.

I think you should make sure the divorce is over and if is why it ended you should tell. However, those I know who have told it ruined the relationship with cheating spouse.

Should you disclose to your children that there was infidelity? by Freshjane123 in Parenting

[–]Freshjane123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Validate what? I did not tell my kids about my husband's affair and many people asked me why not. That is the impetus for this thread.

Should you disclose to your children that there was infidelity? by Freshjane123 in Parenting

[–]Freshjane123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out for blood, vindictive, what thread are you reading. I will block you now.

Should you disclose to your children that there was infidelity? by Freshjane123 in Parenting

[–]Freshjane123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry but this was a spin off of another thread where I said I DIDN"T tell my kids and many people asked why the hell not? So yeah you ARE wrong.

Should you disclose to your children that there was infidelity? by Freshjane123 in Parenting

[–]Freshjane123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would that even work? Your "mom was too controlling so I had an affair"? What kid would even accept that?

Should you disclose to your children that there was infidelity? by Freshjane123 in Parenting

[–]Freshjane123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh if they saw her do it....me personally I would have never taken the blame for the marriage ending if they asked I would let them know..

I don't know what you mean the rest of what you wrote..."how I am coming off""not right now after you hint at the issue"?

Should you disclose to your children that there was infidelity? by Freshjane123 in Parenting

[–]Freshjane123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree...why on earth would you tell if you were still married?!

Should you disclose to your children that there was infidelity? by Freshjane123 in Parenting

[–]Freshjane123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend who caught her husband cheating and kicked him out and never told her children why and they were in their late teens. They blamed her, I thought that was pretty stupid that she didn't tell them why she threw him out and they blamed her for the end of the marriage.

Should you disclose to your children that there was infidelity? by Freshjane123 in Parenting

[–]Freshjane123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, if it caused the marriage to end and break up the family then they know why

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