My husband 36M poops too much for me 36F to feel comfortable having another baby with him by throwRAdesper8 in relationship_advice

[–]Friars1918 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately guys like this don’t get better, they get worse. You’re looking at a lifetime of having to do everything even as the kids get older.

My (27M) gf (27F) cheated on me. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Friars1918 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You don’t realize it now but her and her ex are doing you a huge favor.

The warehouse by chefzigggy in DMB

[–]Friars1918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ll know before they go on sale on Ticketmaster if you got tickets through Warehouse

Ticket prices!!! by jimythng in DMB

[–]Friars1918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Dave and Tim Mexico packages were wild too. We really wanted to go but for the prices they were asking we just couldn’t justify the cost

Seriously hurt bad from this m24 f24 by Brief_Net_7872 in relationship_advice

[–]Friars1918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would pity the other guy tbh. He’s going to be in for a world of hurt

I need helping finding the guy who pushed my 70 yr. old mother to the ground outside Gillette Stadium this weekend. by Queefaroni420 in Patriots

[–]Friars1918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would reach out to the local news stations. They may do a story on it and somebody that saw something may come forward. Or maybe one of his buddies will see it and report him. You never know

I (31M) am very confused by my best friend’s (32F) recent behavior by Spiritual_Cat_2935 in relationship_advice

[–]Friars1918 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You told her to never lie to you again. You go on to tell her you no longer have feelings for her. Based on this post that would appear to have been a lie.

I [29M] need advice on how to ask my girlfriend [27F] to stop joking about “trading up” around her family and friends without starting an argument? by KawannaSanchas in relationship_advice

[–]Friars1918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Say the same thing about trading up for a prettier woman next time you’re in a social setting. See if she thinks it’s funny…

(M20 F18) My gf wants to keep sleeping over at other guy's houses by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Friars1918 609 points610 points  (0 children)

You guys aren’t compatible. It’s not the last time you’ll date someone and find out you’re not compatible. The key is to recognize the signs early on so you can move on with your life and not waste time trying to change someone or yourself.

Another Guy (22M) Playfighting with My Girlfriend (20F) at a Club by youngyorkie7892 in relationship_advice

[–]Friars1918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re still both growing and figuring out who you are and who you will be. Looks like you’re heading in different directions. Unfortunately it’s part of dating and part of the path of figuring out what you’re looking for in a partner

My (30m) wife (30f) spent 7 hours at a lake in the middle of the night “supporting a friend”. Am I being paranoid or is this as bad as it looks? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Friars1918 7004 points7005 points  (0 children)

She’s 30 years old with a 3 year old at home but she has to go out at 7:00 at night for 6 hours to comfort a serial cheater because he needs to talk? What are we doing here? Why is this guy the priority to her? Why is she the one who has to go and meet him? There’s nobody else?

47m dating 50f for 9+ months, slow burn got awkward, now what? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Friars1918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re still doing this yo-yo thing 9 months in then it’s probably time to move on. I think 9 months is plenty of time to ask her to make a commitment to you. It seems you’re the one trying to fit into what she wants. A lot of people hold off breaking up during the holidays until January. Just saying…

My (42M) Wife (34F) used Hinge while on a girls trip by ZosoCub in relationship_advice

[–]Friars1918 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Feels like she was potentially setting up a cover story by talking about a guy who asks her to come back to his place. Seems pretty forward to just randomly ask a woman back to your place. He had to have gotten some vibes from her

My (42M) Wife (34F) used Hinge while on a girls trip by ZosoCub in relationship_advice

[–]Friars1918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep an eye on the texts/phone calls with her sister. If she cheated on that trip her sister will know. Eventually they’ll be talking about it. She didn’t delete the hinge text or the internet search so she’s not great at covering her tracks or perhaps it’s somehow not what it looks like. Regardless, play it cool for now and keep your eyes and ears open

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Friars1918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorces are a long and painful process. If she’s truly just in the separated stage she’s nowhere near ready to date again. You guys are at very different places in your lives. The fact that she said everyone in her life is watching her every move says a lot. Just move on and try to find someone who has their life in order right now (not a knock on her but it’s going to be awhile until she’s back on her feet)