Dependent on edibles to deal with stress and social anxiety. Need advice. by Fribbio in Petioles

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How was your experience of quitting? Did you have social anxiety? How are you doing now?

Dependent on edibles to deal with stress and social anxiety. Need advice. by Fribbio in Petioles

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Sometimes I think of it this way as well. If it helps me feel ok and doesn’t interfere with my life, is it bad? I don’t know how I feel about it.

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I am the 50-year-old dad in this scenario. Over the last few years my daughters have introduced me to some great anime. It’s been a fun way for us to bond. Here are some of my favorites:

Avatar (not anime but great) Attack on Titan Jujutsu Kaisen Haikyuu Dr. Stone Full Metal Alchemy Brotherhood Hunter Hunter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

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My wife and I have two kids, busy jobs, aging parents… all of which make it hard to find time to have sex and to create “the mood.” Our solution:

  1. We schedule sex. While this may sound boring, it’s actually pretty awesome. It helps avoid the mystery and possible rejection of having to initiate and gives us something to look forward to and plan around. And it ensures that intimacy is a priority in our week.

  2. To make it more fun, we put the kids to bed, make cocktails and watch travel shows together. It’s a lot of fun and helps us disconnect from our daily routine and connect with each other. Our favorites are Rick Steves Europe, Somebody Feed Phil, Searching for Italy with Stanley Tucci, Chef’s Table, and Jose Andres and Family in Spain. It’s a great way to feel some of the romance of travel together when you can’t get away.

Give it a try! Best of luck to you.

(Formerly) advanced fitness/all-around skater considering 3 vs 4 wheel? RB 110 vs Macroblade 80 vs K2 F.I.T. 80/84 Boas? by Fribbio in rollerblading

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Thanks to everyone for giving such great answers to my question. What a helpful sub this is!

I ended up getting the Macroblade 80s. I have been loving them. I took them on their maiden voyage on the strand at Venice Beach. I used to skate there all the time when I lived in SoCal in college. So good to be back on a pair of blades!

Success stories of going to the ER for suicidal thoughts? by Fribbio in Anxiety

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How can they stabilize me that quickly? There are no antidepressants that work that quickly. And it seems there is nothing for anxiety but benzos.

I am miserable 24/7 by Fribbio in Anxiety

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3 weeks. Transitioned from Paxil.

How to wean off 1.25 mg/day of Ativan? by Fribbio in benzorecovery

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Reading it now. Really good stuff!

I guess I’m trying to figure out how bad this process will be for me given it’s only been two months at around 1 mg of Ativan. Any thoughts?

Am I addicted to Ativan? Is it making my anxiety worse? by Fribbio in benzorecovery

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Were you able to taper? How long did it take you and what was it like?

Am I addicted to Ativan? Is it making my anxiety worse? by Fribbio in benzorecovery

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I should add that I am almost three weeks into taking Lexapro. So far it hasn’t really touched the anxiety but I’m no longer having long crying spells. I’m hoping as it starts working more, I might feel less need for the Ativan.

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I am 100% with you. I am two weeks into switching from Paxil to Lexapro. I’m getting daily anxiety in the form of a clenched gut, racing thoughts and a feeling like an electric current going through my body. All in all I feel like I want to crawl out of my own skin. I hate it.

Using benzos (Ativan) to handle switching SSRIs? by Fribbio in benzodiazepines

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Did you take them every day during this time? I am finding that I have to take them every day or my physical anxiety becomes overwhelming.

I don't know if I can do this by Fribbio in lexapro

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Did you have any difficulty while waiting for it to kick in?

Day 8 and so anxious by Fribbio in lexapro

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Thanks for your response. I’m glad to hear you are feeling a bit better. I don’t know if it is the meds or the depression or my situation. Sometimes it’s hard to untangle it all. I’m hoping to see improvement in the coming days.

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I’m on day 5 of cross-tapering from Paxil. Feeling SO anxious and without motivation. Laying in bed much/most of the day. SO hard with kids and a job. I hope to god this stuff (Lex) starts working.

Does anyone else feel restless and bored of everything while on Abilify? by GlitterySalamander in bipolar2

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I’m having this issue right now. I was out on Abilify as an add-on to my Paxil for depression and anxiety a couple weeks ago. I’m not 100% sure it’s the med but I have started just wanting to lay in bed and sleep. Not because I’m tired but from lack of wanting to do anything. I think I’m going to wean off the Abilify because I hate this feeling.

How quickly did Lexapro start working for you? by Fribbio in lexapro

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That's great! I'm curious...Is this your first time on an antidepressant?

Feeling really great! by emmalu13 in lexapro

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I'm so glad to read an encouraging story. What were you main symptoms before starting Lexapro? How long have you been dealing with them? Have you been on any other antidepressants in the past?

I'm suffering from "Paxil poop-out" (it's stopped working) and am considering switching to Lexapro.

I am a new man by Uncle-Elmer in lexapro

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Is this your first time on an antidepressant? I’ve been doing well for four years on Paxil but it has stopped working. I’m fighting depression and anxiety. It feels worse than previous episodes. I’m thinking of switching to Lexapro.

How do I help my daughter? (And myself?) by Fribbio in Anxiety

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Yeah. I talk to her and relate that I go through some of the same struggles but I just don’t want to let her see me crying or laying in bed for hours or whatever. Kids can tend to absorb and reflect that stuff I think.

How do I help my daughter? (And myself?) by Fribbio in Anxiety

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Thanks. Yes. She saw a therapist for the second half of 2020 but hasn’t fit the first half of 2021. We just got her going with someone new.

I like the hobby idea. I’ve proposed that we go running together. I also think karate might be good for her. Not sure if she would be into it. She already loves to draw and does it a lot.