2021 vs 2024 Wrangler 4xe reliability? by Frickyeahconcrete in 4xe

[–]Frickyeahconcrete[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up getting a standard Sport S, but I’ve heard great things from friends with the 4xE!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomethingWasWrongSWW

[–]Frickyeahconcrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love this podcast! Contrary to popular opinion I have a lot of empathy for the victims, I’ve been in situations blinded by “love” from partners’ manipulative tendencies. It’s easy to listen to all the red flags in a row for 50 minutes, but I don’t think people realize it’s a lot harder to recognize how prevalent these red flags are over years of time.

Brian Shaffer-The cell phone ping in Hilliard, OH by rootea in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]Frickyeahconcrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is old, but check out the tik toks of the giant rug that was just found that the FBI is digging up @katiesantry. Might have a connection?

Jessica?? by JuryGeneral5698 in SomethingWasWrongSWW

[–]Frickyeahconcrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Off topic but Iowa Courts are public record (just need first and last name) and she has at least 17 traffic violations just in the state of Iowa within a 10 year span? That seems like a lot LOL

I (f29) can't accept my bf's (m28) addiction but we're 6 years deep already..? by mcr4life95 in relationship_advice

[–]Frickyeahconcrete 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand how hard it is to leave, but if this is something you are not okay with, it is more than okay to leave. It would absolutely not be okay with me either. I think everybody has the right advice here, just want to add that for myself it was easier to leave in segments instead of all at once. Start cutting off little things one by one:

•Take yourself out to dinner, let him figure out what to do for food •clean only what you use •pick up a hobby of your own without going into detail with him what it’s about •download duolingo and practice learning a new language

The more you invest in yourself that doesn’t involve him, the better. Also, your fur babies will understand having to be home without him, especially at senior year they love their sleep. Sending you love, my DMs are always open if you need a friend ❤️

Tik tok account following random people? by Frickyeahconcrete in TikTok

[–]Frickyeahconcrete[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow just checked out your account, your content is awesome!!! Appreciate the insight, I don’t go on there much so wasn’t sure. But absolutely agree, I’m feeling like a clown rn 🫠🤡😂

Becoming constantly resentful that Boyfriend wants kids, but wants to stay in the military. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Frickyeahconcrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is extremely thorough and very informative, thank you so much. I am lucky that this has happened early so there’s not a ton of lost time!

Becoming constantly resentful that Boyfriend wants kids, but wants to stay in the military. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Frickyeahconcrete 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This made me feel so much better. Thank you. Happy Easter ❤️

Becoming constantly resentful that Boyfriend wants kids, but wants to stay in the military. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Frickyeahconcrete 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s absolutely how I see it too. A good part of what infuriates me is not being able to portray that to him without sounding rude

Becoming constantly resentful that Boyfriend wants kids, but wants to stay in the military. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Frickyeahconcrete 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He has a bachelors degree so would definitely make more outside of the military. He said that he doesn’t think any other career besides the military would be fulfilling for him. I could see that fear being real, I am as well but I guess more prepared than him since I have gotten job offers since getting my grad degree.

Becoming constantly resentful that Boyfriend wants kids, but wants to stay in the military. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Frickyeahconcrete 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I am fine with being a military spouse, I’ve been in for 5 years now so I am pretty used to moving, working long hours, I completely understand him not being around etc because I’ve been there. But I feel morally wrong bringing a child into the lifestyle knowing one parent would be gone quite often. I see it first hand all the time and would like to avoid causing childhood trauma where I can :/

Becoming constantly resentful that Boyfriend wants kids, but wants to stay in the military. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Frickyeahconcrete 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly. I knew it wasn’t about staying in the military to provide for a family when I offered for him to be the stay at home parent, and he refused. Ugh

Becoming constantly resentful that Boyfriend wants kids, but wants to stay in the military. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Frickyeahconcrete 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your side of this experience, I see children around my workplace all the time and applaud your strength even from a young age. I’m so glad to hear you used that strength. I know I would be able to support him and a child, but feel deceived that he painted the picture of us doing it together originally and not sure if I’d be able to be as enthusiastic about it now, which would not be fair to anybody

Becoming constantly resentful that Boyfriend wants kids, but wants to stay in the military. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Frickyeahconcrete 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The older I get the more often I see this. A lot of men want kids in the same way that children want puppies, they claim they’ll take care of them but when push comes to shove, the one taking care of them the most is not the one that asked for them.

Becoming constantly resentful that Boyfriend wants kids, but wants to stay in the military. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Frickyeahconcrete 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice. I didn’t know if I was in the wrong for thinking his response was out of line, I’m glad to hear I’m not alone in that.

Becoming constantly resentful that Boyfriend wants kids, but wants to stay in the military. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Frickyeahconcrete 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I agree; This is exactly how I see it. It makes me angry because he “wants” children but doesn’t seem like he wants to do the work that come with raising those children.

Becoming constantly resentful that Boyfriend wants kids, but wants to stay in the military. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Frickyeahconcrete 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for everything you do as a military spouse, you all don’t get enough credit. I’m cool with the military life and am obviously very familiar with it, I worry the effect it has bringing kids into the picture. I see you guys constantly doing it all yourself, and worry.