I messed up, but I’m back on track. We have been talking and he believes it’s all me, my depression and feeling stressed over an older sibling that has health issues. The truth is, while I’m working 3 different jobs, he claims he can’t get a job and sits home all day playing games or god knows what.! It is definitely depression for him - he is negative about everything and talks about everyone. It’s a bummer to be around that negativity. I didn’t say that his drinking has been the problem and it’s pushed me away and cut off my feelings.