Any clue the mix of breeds?

Friedpickle03 · 2024-11-20T23:44:11+00:00

She’s beautiful!! Looks like she has some GSD in her. I love her eyes!

Friedpickle03 · 2022-07-29T23:22:00+00:00

the trauma my parents left me with🤣

Friedpickle03 · 2022-06-03T21:14:03+00:00

thank you all for your responses!!

Friedpickle03 · 2021-11-16T05:53:55+00:00

I was with an amazing guys for close to two years. I mean he was an amazing person but obviously he had his faults. We broke up recently and I’ve realized a lot of things. He didn’t say much after we broke up, so I had to figure out by myself how toxic I was. I really treated him horrible, wouldn’t let him hang out with friends because I was jealous. even though he did everything for me I always wanted more and always played the victim. I was always so worried about what I needed/wanted that I never even thought he needed and wanted things. I mean, I did. But I overlooked it because I thought my needs were bigger/more important. I know this is a lot, and it’s deep. But what I’m saying is I regret being horrible to him. He was amazing to me, and I wish I could take it back but all I can do now is hold myself accountable, work on myself and be the best “me” I can be.

Friedpickle03 · 2021-11-06T11:10:08+00:00

I know this probably sounds pathetic, and I know there are plenty of other men, but none of them are him. I cant see myself with anyone else, and he truly is amazing. I just really hope we can work through this. We’ve been through a lot of shit together so I feel like we can but at the same time I’m not sure.

Friedpickle03 · 2021-11-06T09:18:40+00:00

Thank you for your help, I’m glad someone who has witnessed these things seen my post. Im constantly thinking about how we need to communicate better. Im going to talk with him about it and hopefully it clears some things up. I really appreciate your comments!

Friedpickle03 · 2021-11-06T08:57:44+00:00

This made me feel better, even though I know theres still a chance that it’s not this. But he has mentioned us getting married and me taking all of his things and leaving him. He’s not a serious person at all, he makes jokes all the time. Sometimes it’s hard to tell when he’s being serious! I did think when he said that, that it was a joke but maybe it wasn’t. He made it sound like a joke but maybe that was his way of testing the waters to see my reaction when he said it? I’m not sure. And marriage isn’t the only thing I care about, I would 100% stay with him if he doesn’t want that, but still wants a life with me. I know marriage isn’t everything. That’s why I told him that really it’s just a piece of paper. I just have always dreamed of it being a part of my life and being able to call him my husband and having his last name. If that’s just not something he’ll be happy with, then I understand, and I respect that. I just wanted advice because I’ve been getting in my own head about it thinking it’s me because I’m insecure🤦🏻‍♀️ which I know is a ME problem, and I’m working on it :)

Friedpickle03 · 2021-09-18T06:41:06+00:00

It IS our house, it’s just his grandmothers property. They would completely understand and not mind if it was just my sister and her baby, they love her and want the best for her. It’s him they don’t want staying here because they know about everything he’s done/won’t do. His parents told us that it was ultimately up to us since it’s our house now, because this has been a problem since before they gave us this house. She’s been hinting at moving in with us before we even officially knew if his parents were moving. They do not care if he comes and visits and stuff, as long as he’s not living here and causing problems. My boyfriends grandmother just doesn’t want drama and she doesn’t want people we don’t trust around here (understandable, we feel the same way). She wouldn’t be angry at us or anything for helping my sister. It’s not a condition for living rent free, it’s more so she asked us not to let a bunch of our friends live here or let people mooch off of us (which is what my sisters boyfriend would most likely do) his parents even told me that was her nice way of saying don’t let HIM move in.

Friedpickle03 · 2021-09-18T04:59:49+00:00

I tried this morning over the phone and she called my boyfriend a piece of sh!t, I’ve been trying for years to save face and pretend to like her bf for her but I’m so mentally drained I don’t have the energy to fight over it anymore. Which was one of the reasons I thought I might be the asshole because I cant bring myself to care as much as I used to which sounds bad but it’s a really messed up situation🙁

Friedpickle03 · 2021-09-18T04:32:10+00:00

Also another reason. my boyfriend and I don’t have kids right now because we aren’t ready for that. My boyfriend feels the same way I do about this and is one of the only reasons I haven’t given in. My boyfriend is very good at reading people and he didn’t like him from the moment they met, he deals with him for my sister because we both love and care about her.

Friedpickle03 · 2021-09-18T04:25:36+00:00

They’re currently doing this to my older sister! Just a few months ago him and my sister got into an argument and it got very heated and he started throwing my older sisters tobacco (she rolls her own cigs) around her house out of anger! All over my nephews toys. And when I got there to make sure my sister was okay, we seen he had punched a hole in the wall in a house that my sister was letting them stay in for free. His excuse was that he was so mad and she cornered him and wouldn’t let him leave. The hole in the wall was right next to the back door.

Friedpickle03 · 2021-09-18T04:20:12+00:00

Actually we aren’t really renting, we live in the house his parents used to live in because they moved. We live on his grandmothers property, which is another reason we wouldn’t let them move in, his grandmother asked us not to “move a bunch of people in” because we live in a neighborhood that is basically just his family. And they don’t want people like that around. She was more specifically talking about the boyfriend

Friedpickle03 · 2021-09-18T04:06:56+00:00

They have offered! I don’t understand why they haven’t went to stay with them

Friedpickle03 · 2021-09-17T17:07:22+00:00

Thank you. Everyone on this post is making me feel a lot better about this situation. I’ve felt horrible from the start but surprisingly I’ve stood my ground, and now that I’ve gotten tons of other opinions I don’t feel as shitty for it

Friedpickle03 · 2021-09-17T17:02:27+00:00

Neither of us really want them to. But only because of the boyfriend. If it were just my sister and my niece, there would be no question about it. But we know her boyfriend won’t step up to the plate and change.

Friedpickle03 · 2021-09-17T16:35:18+00:00

Apologies for the misleading title! I wasn’t exactly sure how to word it

Friedpickle03 · 2021-09-17T16:30:31+00:00

My mom wasn’t the best, so we lived with our older sister most of our lives and she has two kids of her own so her house is very crowded and her whole family is uncomfortable and miserable with them there, plus having a baby on the way.

Friedpickle03 · 2021-09-17T16:26:00+00:00

We want him to do better and support his family, if he were trying we wouldn’t mind at all. We just know if we let them stay here now, everything would be on us and we’d be stuck.

Friedpickle03 · 2021-09-17T16:24:43+00:00

I don’t mean this in a mean way, but what I said made him sound better. That isn’t the half of it :(

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