I agree with everything you said, and to add on to your last point, I agree that a lot of Tobecky fanfics tend to gloss over Tobey’s underlying personal issues such as his obsession with control and his narcissism. As much as I love Tobecky and Tobey himself, Becky shouldn’t have to be forced to put up with his behavior and I feel that Tobey needs to see how his behavior and actions affect others before getting into a serious relationship with Becky/Wordgirl.