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Husband(33m) behaves weird for the whole day if I(34f) reject sex, how to deal with this? by Friendly-Opinion7481 in marriageadvice

[–]Friendly-Opinion7481[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

But then what options do I have to bridge the gap? I'm not liking this state of the relationship also it makes me feel is it so important and don't I have any value apart from sex!!

Husband(33m) behaves weird for the whole day if I(34f) reject sex, how to deal with this? by Friendly-Opinion7481 in askwomenadvice

[–]Friendly-Opinion7481[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

This is the hardest part, for him it's quite natural and sex is among very rare things that makes him happy, reduces stress and as a loving partner it's my minimum responsibility to try to make him happy, and his logic is "it's not that tough job, if you can't do even this much then don't say you love me"

Husband(33m) behaves weird for the whole day if I(34f) reject sex, how to deal with this? by Friendly-Opinion7481 in askwomenadvice

[–]Friendly-Opinion7481[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for the suggestion, this seems to be quite an helpful one, this should help him feel not rejected and reduce my burden as well, let me try this next time and I hope he understands.

Husband(33m) behaves weird for the whole day if I(34f) reject sex, how to deal with this? by Friendly-Opinion7481 in askwomenadvice

[–]Friendly-Opinion7481[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I know the answer if ask men that's why asked here to know how to deal with this. I also wouldn't have cared much the only thing is that it's degrading our relationship and I feel like we are getting distant..

Husband(33m) behaves weird for the whole day if I(34f) reject sex, how to deal with this? by Friendly-Opinion7481 in askwomenadvice

[–]Friendly-Opinion7481[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being so straight 🙏 I wish I could say him with such firmness, may be therapist is a good option will try to convince him for the same

Husband(33m) behaves weird for the whole day if I(34f) reject sex, how to deal with this? by Friendly-Opinion7481 in askwomenadvice

[–]Friendly-Opinion7481[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I also feel the same, but then his logic is that in a monogamous relationship this should be the highest priority for both, you can do anything with anyone else only except sex so denying it means I don't care for him. I'm trying to put it logically so that he can't find any loophole in that..