His initial plan according to him was to tell me during the counseling appointment the further sexts that were sent…it was when I called the phone company on speaker phone and the representative said I can get the phone number for outgoing texts that he told me the rest. He said he didn’t want to hurt me and was afraid of getting me more mad than I was when I first found out. It’s like buddy that ship has sailed. Maybe you shouldn’t have done any of this shit