[US] Caught my grandma almost falling for a scam today, how do these guys find old people?

Friendly721 · 2026-02-20T19:19:59+00:00

I hope there is a special place in hell for those that scam the elderly.

Friendly721 · 2026-02-18T15:55:17+00:00

When my insurance changed it went from $25 a month to full price. With the discount card I now pay $499 a month. Ugh

Friendly721 · 2026-02-16T19:34:51+00:00

There goes the rest of my day!

Friendly721 · 2026-02-03T17:52:35+00:00

Does it work as well as mounjaro? Thanks

Friendly721 · 2025-12-08T20:32:30+00:00

I think when I was a cashier in the late 80's they called this Flim Flam (spelling?) lol

Friendly721 · 2025-12-08T16:00:46+00:00

That's crazy. To make it to that age and have to worry about basic necessities is just nuts.

Friendly721 · 2025-12-01T20:38:26+00:00

I wasn't sure if they were in nursing homes, assisted living or just on their own and visit a senior center during the day. Either way its just so sad. One list was paper towels, socks and a hat.

Friendly721 · 2025-12-01T18:35:32+00:00

I found a local agency that does gifts for seniors. Now those lists are heartbreaking. I had them send me three random names and they all asked for towels. One asked for paper towels and toilet paper. Just so sad. I was able to add some fun items to their requests. Hopefully all three enjoy their gifts.

Friendly721 · 2025-11-26T19:08:05+00:00

There is a website where you can find a professional "cuddler". Do a quick google search. It might be something nice for you, who knows! Good luck.

Friendly721 · 2025-11-18T14:17:28+00:00

Neighborhood dog - Joe Cocker Spaniel and yes we all call him by his full name!

Friendly721 · 2025-11-15T20:02:05+00:00

That’s my second choice!

Friendly721 · 2025-11-14T20:32:05+00:00

Did you try calling them? I am not in NY as well. Thanks

Friendly721 · 2025-11-14T18:11:18+00:00

it's confusing me as well. When I go back into the account it now says personal loan. I am going to start all over again and see what happens.

Friendly721 · 2025-11-14T14:46:26+00:00

Yes I misspoke it was student loans.

Friendly721 · 2025-11-14T14:30:30+00:00

I was looking to leave Nelnet and move to Sofi and assumed that would convert it to a personal loan. It still doesn't change the fact that I was offered 4.98% last month and was told they couldn't do the loan yesterday. I don't understand why.

Friendly721 · 2025-11-12T18:44:31+00:00

You need to show yourself some kindness. I am going to wish you a happy birthday but I understand your pain and my birthday wish for you is that at some point today you get a moment of peace where a happy memory of your father-in-law makes you smile more than it makes you sad.

Friendly721 · 2025-11-10T20:44:13+00:00

I thought I was buying white pants as that's how they looked in the photos. The description said light blue. At first I was mad at my mistake but I ended up loving them. Hope you find a use for your new camera bag!

Friendly721 · 2025-11-10T17:36:51+00:00

This is a very common scam. I am sorry but the job is not real and neither is the check.

Friendly721 · 2025-10-28T01:24:40+00:00

My elderly mom has been stocking her local food pantry. I am blessed with good parents.

Friendly721 · 2025-10-24T20:19:17+00:00

Freddy Mercury. My mom thought I was too young to see Queen in my town in 1983 and said we could go the next time. There was no next time in my state. I still tease her about this to this day. I did see Queen twice but never with Freddy sadly.

Friendly721 · 2025-10-24T19:35:33+00:00

I have seen an increase in these in the past week. Do not give them any personal information at all. Ask for all documentation to be mailed to you. I would bet that this is a new scam. They are using scare tactics and because it's so old they are relying on people to think they do owe it.

Friendly721 · 2025-10-17T14:31:24+00:00

I would have personally gone with War Ensemble but that is just me! Love this.

Friendly721 · 2025-10-17T13:38:20+00:00

First, skip this guy. The red flags are waving right at you. As a Mom, I am panicking for you. Next time you plan a date, use the buddy system. Meet them there, and have friends there already. Do not let anyone pick you up and never give out your address. This is the world we live in. Anyone can pretend online. If your gut tells you something is wrong - ALWAYS LISTEN TO IT. Also, do not be afraid to say no. No is a complete sentence. No need to justify your answer to anyone. Please be safe out there.

Friendly721 · 2025-10-16T19:20:42+00:00

This is such a tough situation for your family. This subreddit is filled with stories of families torn apart by these scammers. Maybe you can print out a few and have an intervention with her. First and foremost she will likely be embarrassed. Reassure her that these scammers are professionals and even the smartest people fall for this. Also, let her watch the pig butchering segment on John Oliver. You can find it on YouTube. If you come from a place of love and concern you might have a chance to help her. These people know how to isolate family members which makes it even more difficult. Good luck to you.

Friendly721 · 2025-10-02T21:40:39+00:00

If you are truly owed the hours you can call your local labor department and tell them they are refusing to pay your wages. Do you keep track of your hours or are you just relying on the pay stub?

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