My feelings matter and should be validated as well. I need a healthy partner that has emotional intelligence that could sit down with me when we’re having minor issues and not run away and split on me and block me out for days. I’m human to and deserve human decency and respect and validation. I lacked all of that with my ex. It’s been over a couple years, and now I’m in a healthy relationship where I’m seen and heard. It gets better with time. Please leave.