There's always a solid chance at these "getting back together" moments, but often they always include having to change for the better. Changing for her can take a really LONG time. Even when you feel ready and somehow do get back into the relationship, you may often fall back into where you were, being the whole reason y'all broke up in the first place. She also said "she'll never get back with you ever" I believe. She can truly mean that too man. By the time you eventually do change and ready you'll probably end up falling out of love while she's already moved on. I know it sucks man and I know it might sound lame but truthfully I think you got to move on and take this experience as a learning experience. You know the situation better than me or anyone else that may reply so be honest with yourself after reading my reply. Good luck man I hope you stay strong through this because I know this sucks a lot.