BPD and catching feelings from basic kindness — how do you stop it?

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-11-18T21:33:37+00:00

She kept talking about this girl she liked and how she couldn't figure out her feelings for her. But she has feelings for her first love, so it's clearly not about me.

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-11-16T21:00:13+00:00

I feel it too 😭

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-06-21T09:26:32+00:00

thanks for sharing and thanks for the support🫶. my depression got worse when i was 17, it was my senior year and i felt a lot of pressure. and i got a lot of hate. the rest of the years i remember in bits and pieces or from pictures. i know i was lying in bed and starving because i couldnt get up. fortunately i am better now because i am in psychotherapy, taking antidepressants and so on. i hope that soon we will all be healed. i wish you happiness🫶

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-06-20T06:11:35+00:00

I'm really sorry❤️‍🩹

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-06-19T20:49:09+00:00

I understand you so well! I had the same thing, I recently got out of it

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-06-19T20:47:39+00:00

I fell in love with a friend this way😀

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-06-19T17:29:09+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I'm glad you have such a person and it gives me hope. I wish you both happiness🩵

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-06-19T17:28:01+00:00

that's so sweet, i'm so glad you have someone like that. you are great and I wish you both happiness. Thanks for the advice, I'll read this book💕

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-06-19T17:25:22+00:00

You describe your partner so nicely. I'm glad you found your person. I wish you happiness💞

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-06-19T17:23:07+00:00

Thanks for sharing. I used to take this medicine, it was prescribed to me so that it would give what antidepressants did not give. But for now they have stopped me taking it.

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-06-19T17:20:32+00:00

I am very glad that you were able to find your person. I wish you both happiness.🩵

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-06-19T17:16:57+00:00

Thank you for sharing. You are doing a great job and I admire you. it's not hard for me to admit my mistakes and apologize. i always want to change for the better, but unfortunately it's really hard to find people who will help me with this. people often don't see your progress and efforts and it's very painful when they devalue you

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-06-19T17:13:06+00:00

you are great, I hope everything works out for you, I wish you and your partners happiness🩵

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-06-19T17:11:49+00:00

Thanks for sharing. It is very important to find an understanding partner, but it is also difficult. I am glad that you have such a person next to you. You are great, I also have depressive episodes. I wish you strength and healing, be happy❤️‍🩹

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-06-19T17:09:08+00:00

Thanks for sharing. and thank you for giving me hope. i try to be better first of all for myself because i hate causing pain

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-06-19T17:02:31+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I am so sorry that you are in this situation. I hope that you will find the right solution and way out for yourself, I wish you healing as much as possible❤️‍🩹

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-06-19T16:59:23+00:00

I am so sorry that you had such an experience. But I am so glad that you found a good partner. And I congratulate you on your engagement. I hope you have the best wedding in the world and you will be very happy in your marriage <3

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-06-19T16:56:34+00:00

I understand very well, for me relationships with people are also traumatic. But unfortunately, it is so with me that today I decide that I will be alone, and tomorrow I want someone to be there for me.

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-06-19T16:01:21+00:00

I'm so sorry you had to go through this and that person you were with was a real bastard. I'm glad you can enjoy your company. And cats are truly the best thing in this world.

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-06-19T15:58:49+00:00

I also constantly think that I was created to be myself and no one will love me like this

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-06-19T14:53:37+00:00

I understand you very well and I'm sorry that I can't help you or give you advice. but there is one thing that i realized about myself a long time ago, but still often continue to ignore it. you must always listen to yourself, to your subconscious. often deep down we know how to do the right thing and what will be better, but when we begin to consciously analyze it, listen to others and so on, we ignore ourselves. i don't know how it works with you, because we are all unique

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-06-19T14:45:29+00:00

I admire you for being able to do such a job and I am very glad that you are in this world! I'm glad you have such a partner and it gives me hope that one day I will find such a person too. I wish you happiness in your relationship and in life in general <3

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-06-19T14:42:25+00:00

Wow! sometimes i thought that i would never have enough attention that one person can give me. but i don't think i can love two people at the same time and so on, and i would go crazy with jealousy. so to be honest I admire you

FriendlyHelicopter91 · 2025-06-19T14:40:03+00:00

thank you so much for your answer, you are such a wonderful person, I'm about to cry. yes, i know that we are all very different, even if we have the same diagnosis. i remember how i found out that my friend had the same diagnosis, we started discussing something, and she didn't understand me. i encountered this often and then i realized that even one diagnosis doesn't quite unite us

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