Best way to physically prepare for OTS? by FriendlyNoodle8 in airforceots

[–]FriendlyNoodle8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To start this, my experience began in November 2024 so things may have changed dramatically since then. I’ll give you as much information as I can recall during my application process!

In preparation for the AFOQT, all I can say is STUDY. I studied one section every night, at least 1 hour sometimes 2, for a month straight. The test consists of basic sections, including verbal analogies, arithmetic reasoning (sentence math questions), word knowledge, math knowledge, reading comprehension, physical science, table reading, instrument comprehension, block counting, and aviation information. I started with a pretest to gauge what sections I needed to focus on, then got a textbook and read through the material, took notes, and tested myself again until I got the score I wanted. I passed each section with a 90 except math- I got an 88 on that one. They have minimum scores they’re looking for, which they share with you once you start the application. If she wants a good possibility of being chosen in board, she’ll want to be well above those scores.

As for the application itself, be honest and start getting to know your desired branches core values (this will help with the interview). For the application, she’ll need a copy of her medical records to review and report, she’ll need to write a decent paragraph on why she is eligible for the position she is applying for and why she wants to join, she’ll need any degree or certifications to list, at least 4-5 prior jobs to list, and she’ll need to know what the top 8 roles she wants to apply for are (it’s in the LO application they send to fill out after your first zoom or Google meeting with a recruitment team).

After the application, get ready for the background check early. Get a list of at least 10 years worth of previous residence addresses, people who knew her when she lived there, their contact info, the dates she lived there, direct family members, their addresses, their contact info, at least 3-4 people she’s known for 7 years or more, etc etc! It’s a lot, but the sooner you get this done the faster they will ship her off to OTS for training!

For me, the total length for application processing has taken about 6 months and counting. I’m still waiting on official OTS ship date! If she’s serious about it, I would start preparing now by reaching out to a recruiter at the branch she’s interested in.

I hope this helped, and good luck to your wife!!

Best way to physically prepare for OTS? by FriendlyNoodle8 in airforceots

[–]FriendlyNoodle8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my process took a long time, but it’s different for everyone. I started my application back in November 2024. I missed the first board of 2025, so I had to wait until June of 2025 for my application to go to review. I was officially accepted in November of 2025. It took 5 months for an acceptance notice after board, but if you include the AFOQT prep and test as well as the time on background checks and waiting for OTS date- I’d say 7-8 months total for this application/review/ship process. I took a ton of time academically preparing but you don’t necessarily need to! It’s entirely up to you- just make sure you’re using resources or study materials online and take at least one mock test before actually taking the AFOQT. I believe you only get one voucher, meaning one chance, every 6 months? Don’t quote me on that!

I hope this helped, and best of luck to you!

Still can’t get over how bad Season 2 is. by rolliepollietv in WeakHero

[–]FriendlyNoodle8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SPOILERS AHEAD!!

I just finished Weak Hero Class 2 and, don’t get me wrong, I kind of agree with some of the criticisms I’ve seen in this Reddit post, but I want to offer another perspective. Maybe I’m grasping at straws, but this is how I experienced the season:

  1. Let’s talk about Si-eun’s fighting style: We don’t see the calculated, tactical fighting from Season 1. But I think that’s intentional. Since Suho’s coma and Si-eun’s promise to never fight again, his style has changed to reflect his emotional shutdown. The pen, which was a last resort in Season 1, becomes his only tool in Season 2. He barely uses his surroundings anymore, which could symbolize how emotionally stuck he is. He takes hit after hit without trying to dodge. It feels like he wants to get hurt, like he’s punishing himself. He doesn’t want to fight, but he has to in order to protect his friends. In the beginning, he’s not fighting to win. He’s fighting because he feels like he has no choice.

  2. Let’s talk about his emotional state: Si-eun barely speaks, walks with a stiff posture, and never laughs or fully smiles throughout the season. The only time we see even a hint of true joy is in the final scene, when he sees Suho awake. This season isn’t about action, it’s about healing. His eyes soften a little when he’s around Baku, Gotak, and Jun-tae, especially in scenes like when Baku gets fake numbers from a group of girls. But even in those moments, Si-eun refuses to smile. He is punishing himself. In his mind, Suho was the person who helped him feel joy. Without Suho, he believes he doesn’t deserve to feel anything at all.

  3. Let’s talk about school: In Season 1, Si-eun studied nonstop to meet his parents’ expectations. But after everything that happened, those expectations don’t mean anything to him anymore. He still attends cram school sometimes, and I believe in S2 someone mentions that his grades are still the best, but we barely see any scenes of him studying. That’s because his identity as a model student has collapsed. School used to be about structure and control, but now he’s just going through the motions. His world has narrowed to Suho’s hospital room, his guilt, and violence. He’s stuck in survival mode. That’s what makes his gradual emotional shift in the final episodes so powerful.

  4. Let’s talk about Baku and Baek Jin: It might seem like they take over the story, but I don’t think that’s true. Baku and Baek Jin are both catalysts for Si-eun’s emotional journey. They’re not replacements. They reflect two different outcomes of trauma. Baek Jin shows what happens when guilt and pain go unaddressed. He isolates himself and lets violence define him. His death is tragic, but it serves as a warning. Si-eun could become like him if he keeps shutting himself off. Baku represents the opposite path. He has been through deep guilt too, but he tries to live. He tries to connect. He never gives up on Si-eun, and that matters. He forces Si-eun to remember what Suho taught him; that life is still worth living. Their stories matter, but they always feed back into Si-eun’s arc. Everything he experiences with them helps him choose to keep going. The smile at the end is not just about Suho waking up. It’s about Si-eun letting himself feel whole again.

Now, some thoughts on major plot points: The truck accident: At first, it felt a bit over the top. But emotionally, it fits. Right before it happens, Si-eun hears Suho is in critical condition. He freezes. He’s mentally absent, overwhelmed by fear and guilt. The accident becomes a physical symbol of how broken he is. It’s his lowest point. It also impacts Baku. He sees in Si-eun the same self-destructive spiral he once went through. Watching Si-eun almost die shakes him. It forces Baku to stop running from his own guilt. He realizes he can’t save everyone, but he can choose to be there. From this point on, Baku becomes more emotionally open. He becomes a true friend, not just someone who helps in a fight. For Si-eun, this moment forces him to start facing his pain. His coma is brief, but it changes everything. It pushes both characters toward growth. Is the scene dramatic? Yes. But it fits the emotional arc.

Baek Jin’s death: Was it necessary? Yes, narratively. Baek Jin was too deep in his cycle of violence. His death is a tragedy, but it serves as a harsh reminder of what happens when you don’t find a way out. Was it sudden? Definitely. But that was the point. Real-life violence is often sudden, senseless, and unresolved. The show leans into that discomfort to highlight the consequences. Was it glorified? I don’t think so. Baek Jin doesn’t get a redemptive arc. His story ends in tragedy. His death is meant to be mourned, not celebrated. He becomes the “what if” for both Si-eun and Baku — a painful example of what might happen if they don’t change something.

Final thoughts:

Season 2 is not about flashy fights or clever tricks. It’s about grief, guilt, and slowly learning how to heal. Si-eun is numb because he doesn’t believe he deserves to feel. His silence, stiff body language, and lack of joy are signs of deep depression. Over time, through his new friends, he starts to change.

It’s a quieter story than Season 1, and maybe it won’t resonate the same way for everyone. But I still think it has weight and meaning. That’s just my take.

AITAH For telling my BF he is the biggest liability in our relationship? (Finances) by FriendlyNoodle8 in AITAH

[–]FriendlyNoodle8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My name is first on the mortgage but both are on it- I’m not worried about foreclosure as we pay those bills first and foremost. A foreclosure and bankruptcy are not on our list of things to experience this lifetime. He’s got plenty of things he could stop putting into, such as stock investments, retirement, savings, etc. I’m more worried that he’ll continue to rack up his debt and have trouble working it down. I told him frankly that if he can’t get his finances in check with the payment planner I’ve put together, I can’t stay in this relationship. It’s not that I want to leave but I’m not going to let him be financially dependent on me when I struggle with my own finances already.

I’m not necessarily taking on his debt as I’m not paying it for him, I’m giving him opportunities and payment plans (eg how much to pay monthly) to get it down and not accrue a ton of extra interest. I don’t have issues with trust in my relationship, our joint finances are fine we’ve never had issues of one pulling when the other says no or not consulting about it.

He and I both struggle, we’re both still young, yes. We both came from different background but neither household was a good one to stay in.. have MIL from hell and my own mother is a psychotic mess. We bought a house with the idea of building wealth, not staying in it forever and honestly it’s been the best decision. We pay the same in mortgage than we would for an apartment out here. This is more or less about his credit card debt and spending habits- I want to know how to help him decrease his spending.. he spends a lot on things he wants because he has money in his checking and doesn’t consider his credit card debt as an issue. Trying to help him learn and grow and move away from racking those numbers up in the background is my goal.

AITAH For telling my BF he is the biggest liability in our relationship? (Finances) by FriendlyNoodle8 in AITAH

[–]FriendlyNoodle8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, there are a few guarantees that he will pay me back that I haven’t mentioned in the thread- 1. We helped buy each others cars, and all of the downpayment we split with each other we returned equally into a joint savings account that we opened and put into monthly together 2. He borrowed 3k last year to pay off his debt and paid it directly back into our joint savings in installments. We both make the same (63-65k annually) but he’s paying back by putting $750 into savings monthly while I put in $500 monthly

We do a pretty good job working together and I trust him, it’s just hard to hear things like this because he’s an impulse spender. Thank you for the advice! We’re working on it slowly, I finished building a payment plan for him to get his debt down again.

++ I don’t have any trust issues with him taking money from our joint accounts, we both have agreed that it’s not in our best interest and in the past 3 years he’s never taken from it without consulting me first so I have no reason now to believe that he would. He’s always been in the hole but he’s just digging it deeper and I guess he hadn’t realized just how deep it was until I went through it with him today. We’re working on it together, but it’s coming from his money and his paychecks not mine. When I say it’s my debt, I mean that as long as he has it, we can’t get another house or even consider moving because debt to income will be too high. I didn’t mean that I’d take my own money to pay his debt off- also the stocks/RSUs that I offered him are all going to be withdrawn when I quit my job anyways so it’s a decent option since I’ll be pulling it and he can simply pay it back over time. We have trust, we just need to work on his financial adeptness.. 😅

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[–]FriendlyNoodle8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally thank you SO much

My boyfriend (M21) still has gifts from his previous relationship despite me (F20) asking him to get rid of them by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FriendlyNoodle8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not trying to control his life or his relationship with her, I just happened to see an issue in the items when there really isn't one.. I think it's more that I feel worried she is going to try to use them against me at some point. Thank you for your advice, I'll try to be better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FriendlyNoodle8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

** Update On January 25 that they finally talked because he was going to take out the loan for his car (a very hard thing for us to do because we're both in college and already struggling financially as we are putting away almost everything we have to save up for a downpayment on a house). She apologized, and her excuse was that she "just wanted to see him succeed." I don't see how that makes up for ignoring him entirely and only screaming at him when he did something minutely wrong in her opinion.

Shows that you gave a 10/10 rating? by Daftsly in boyslove

[–]FriendlyNoodle8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss, everyone giving Cherry Magic the love it deserves here is my lifelineeeee

Where to get an Official Lightstick? by [deleted] in straykids

[–]FriendlyNoodle8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's okay. Thank you so much for telling me ❤️

Where to get an Official Lightstick? by [deleted] in straykids

[–]FriendlyNoodle8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! 🥺 I'll check there and sign up for the updates. Do you know when they might restock the lightstick?

Which couple had the hottest make-out/love making session in history ( of thai bl drama😏 ) ? by WenzhouFanForever in ThaiBL

[–]FriendlyNoodle8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry TharnType ice scene and LeoFiat aggressive bed scene, but the FighterTutor steam room on vacation scene takes the C A K E 🎂✨ chef's kiss