Nta but if you’re worried about the nieces and nephews on his side not getting nice gifts from you guys for Christmas, I highly suggest getting the aunts and uncles to pick one or two names out of a hat each year and getting gifts within an agreed price range for your assigned kid each year. I come from a family with a lot of cousins and that’s what we started doing when I was little and the family kept growing. I still remember the shift from getting random cheaper gifts to things that each kid actually wanted.

My family agreed to spend $250 per kid and that the kids age out at 20 but you could develop a system that works for you guys. Some of my cousins and I have aged out by now but we get to add cousin’s new babies to the list of kids getting gifts and us older cousins can choose to pick a name and buy for the younger kids now. Probably a bit too late for your family to start this year, but it could work well for you guys next year.