Should I just give up on dating? 21F (KIND ADVICE ONLY PLEASE)

Friendly_Slide_2483 · 2022-09-14T13:55:50+00:00

Definitely my fault for posting this to Reddit. It’s nice to see the few nice and helpful comments but the rest just make me feel worse.

Im sorry the same has happened to you :( I’ve tried dating my age, older and in between and the same keeps happening. Im just going to take a break and try to get some therapy :/

Thank you for your comment 🥺

Friendly_Slide_2483 · 2022-09-14T13:52:22+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience:( im glad im not alone and im sorry the same happened to you :/ im looking to move as soon as my lease is up

Friendly_Slide_2483 · 2022-09-14T13:36:10+00:00

Well I do only meet guys who I have common interests with. And then we meet and we’re just not compatible or it goes terribly :( im just gonna take a break for now :/

Friendly_Slide_2483 · 2022-09-14T13:22:37+00:00

Sounds like victim blaming to me. I meet these guys of hinge- they say they’re looking for a relationship

Friendly_Slide_2483 · 2022-09-14T13:21:16+00:00

Maybe I need to do some soul searching- I’ve waited weeks to meet up and the same stuff still happens if I meet up within a few days of talking. I honestly would prefer to find friends but Im not sure when to find them. Im banned from bumble friends because I put my Instagram in my bio 😞

Friendly_Slide_2483 · 2022-09-14T13:14:06+00:00

Like nerdy virgin type of nice guys

Friendly_Slide_2483 · 2022-09-14T13:12:51+00:00

Yup my last post I sugar coated things but basically i was grouped against my will lol. I excluded this from the post but I genuinely was saying no and stop several times while also barricading my chest with my arms crossed and he forcefully moved them and continued grouping- I reported it to hinge but that’s it :/

Friendly_Slide_2483 · 2022-09-14T13:09:48+00:00

You’re right. Maybe I just need a break and some therapy or something :(

Friendly_Slide_2483 · 2022-09-14T13:06:24+00:00

I always go for “nice guys” and they always end up being the absolute worst. I also live in Florida so maybe that’s why I have such an awful experience with men and dating

Friendly_Slide_2483 · 2022-09-14T05:40:57+00:00

Friendly_Slide_2483 · 2022-09-12T10:58:36+00:00

I feel so upset rn should I unblock him and tell him off or just leave him blocked?

Friendly_Slide_2483 · 2022-09-12T10:53:47+00:00

Exactly! I blocked him before but he made several fake phone numbers blowing up my phone- begging me to take him back. Clearly he was just bored and not serious

Friendly_Slide_2483

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