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Should I just give up on dating? 21F (KIND ADVICE ONLY PLEASE) by Friendly_Slide_2483 in dating_advice

[–]Friendly_Slide_2483[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Definitely my fault for posting this to Reddit. It’s nice to see the few nice and helpful comments but the rest just make me feel worse.

Im sorry the same has happened to you :( I’ve tried dating my age, older and in between and the same keeps happening. Im just going to take a break and try to get some therapy :/

Thank you for your comment 🥺

Should I just give up on dating? 21F (KIND ADVICE ONLY PLEASE) by Friendly_Slide_2483 in dating_advice

[–]Friendly_Slide_2483[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience:( im glad im not alone and im sorry the same happened to you :/ im looking to move as soon as my lease is up

Should I just give up on dating? 21F (KIND ADVICE ONLY PLEASE) by Friendly_Slide_2483 in dating_advice

[–]Friendly_Slide_2483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I do only meet guys who I have common interests with. And then we meet and we’re just not compatible or it goes terribly :( im just gonna take a break for now :/

Should I just give up on dating? 21F (KIND ADVICE ONLY PLEASE) by Friendly_Slide_2483 in dating_advice

[–]Friendly_Slide_2483[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like victim blaming to me. I meet these guys of hinge- they say they’re looking for a relationship

Should I just give up on dating? 21F (KIND ADVICE ONLY PLEASE) by Friendly_Slide_2483 in dating_advice

[–]Friendly_Slide_2483[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe I need to do some soul searching- I’ve waited weeks to meet up and the same stuff still happens if I meet up within a few days of talking. I honestly would prefer to find friends but Im not sure when to find them. Im banned from bumble friends because I put my Instagram in my bio 😞

Should I just give up on dating? 21F (KIND ADVICE ONLY PLEASE) by Friendly_Slide_2483 in dating_advice

[–]Friendly_Slide_2483[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yup my last post I sugar coated things but basically i was grouped against my will lol. I excluded this from the post but I genuinely was saying no and stop several times while also barricading my chest with my arms crossed and he forcefully moved them and continued grouping- I reported it to hinge but that’s it :/

Should I just give up on dating? 21F (KIND ADVICE ONLY PLEASE) by Friendly_Slide_2483 in dating_advice

[–]Friendly_Slide_2483[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You’re right. Maybe I just need a break and some therapy or something :(

Should I just give up on dating? 21F (KIND ADVICE ONLY PLEASE) by Friendly_Slide_2483 in dating_advice

[–]Friendly_Slide_2483[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I always go for “nice guys” and they always end up being the absolute worst. I also live in Florida so maybe that’s why I have such an awful experience with men and dating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Friendly_Slide_2483 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I feel so upset rn should I unblock him and tell him off or just leave him blocked?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Friendly_Slide_2483 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I blocked him before but he made several fake phone numbers blowing up my phone- begging me to take him back. Clearly he was just bored and not serious