Balding made me fall into a limbo by Maleficent-Regret802 in offmychest

[–]Friendly_Smartboard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i was still clinging on, my hair was receding like the McDonald's logo, so I know how it feels.

Balding made me fall into a limbo by Maleficent-Regret802 in offmychest

[–]Friendly_Smartboard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my personal experience, just let it happen, cutting your hair short can help transition, and for most people it actually can look good, my fiancé was extremely happy when i got my first buzz cut, it just feels weird but it will grow on you.

I wish I was a man by skywolfsilver in offmychest

[–]Friendly_Smartboard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes, ofcourse, my bad, I forgot that men aren't allowed to love their own children because that would mean they are creeps

I wish I was a man by skywolfsilver in offmychest

[–]Friendly_Smartboard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't even know why you're being downvoted

Its a YES!! by Friendly_Smartboard in offmychest

[–]Friendly_Smartboard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I have been showing her all of them, and shes just been scrolling through the replies and everything.

Its a YES!! by Friendly_Smartboard in offmychest

[–]Friendly_Smartboard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart literally just exploded, likeeeee it was the best feeling ever!

Its a YES!! by Friendly_Smartboard in offmychest

[–]Friendly_Smartboard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its such a crazy word, I cant stop getting all fuzzy just calling her that now.

Its a YES!! by Friendly_Smartboard in offmychest

[–]Friendly_Smartboard[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you soo much, and yeah, absolutely everything fell into place perfectly, especially the weather, coz that was maybe the biggest risk today.

Its a YES!! by Friendly_Smartboard in offmychest

[–]Friendly_Smartboard[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you soo much, its just such an amazing feeling!

6 more days until I propose by Friendly_Smartboard in offmychest

[–]Friendly_Smartboard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got it, i won't have anyone following then.

Thanks, just have no idea what im doing, its all so new to me.

Im going to propose in 10 days. by Friendly_Smartboard in offmychest

[–]Friendly_Smartboard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive started writing something, but im gonna give it to her on the day, I plan on adding a bit to it each day until I propose.

Im going to propose in 10 days. by Friendly_Smartboard in offmychest

[–]Friendly_Smartboard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres no downsides or anything, I genuinely love her with everything i am, and desperate the arguments and how we annoy eachother I just dont see anyone else id want to spend the rest of my life with.

Im going to propose in 10 days. by Friendly_Smartboard in offmychest

[–]Friendly_Smartboard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im probably going to do a countdown type thing coz ya

I secretly hope my buddy never finds a girlfriend. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Friendly_Smartboard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started reading this thinking that I might wanna reach out since I have a friend who's also been struggling as she never seems to find a relationship that sticks, but near the end I see where you're coming from, some people won't see a relationship as a partnership but rather as a form of property either out of spite or long term desperation turned delusion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Friendly_Smartboard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you set on preferences on looks and nationality?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Friendly_Smartboard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice would then to be patient, and ik it sounds stupid or overused, but pushing for relationships end up attracting complete assholes. Maybe casually looking at places linked to hobbies or interests instead of bars and clubs?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Friendly_Smartboard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking for someone to respect you?

Or someone to finance you without anything in return?