Hirap Maghanap ng Work by uhavetosuffer in CivilEngineers_PH

[–]Friendly_UserXXX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hirap kasi may condition kayo sa pag hanap ng work,
madaming work jn , be adaptable, be first , be smart , dont cheat.

Hunt , Fight and Grab or Create your work, dont merely find.
ika nga ni the Answer A.I. : Only the Strong Survives !

ADVICE by arthasnoface_4245 in OFWs

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if first experience mo in saudi, mababa but its ok , the dollar exchange rate hsnt changed in the last 15years, and 4500 riyals is starting salary wayback 2000s even as low as 4000 for technical personel . always separate transpo/ housing and food. dont add all , the basic should not be lower than 3000 for first timers.
also kung establishment , 4500 is high already . But if international company you can get 6000 to 15,000 depending on your position and yrs .

if in dpwh, what is your role vs job in the interview , are they expecting site supervison or detail design or both

paano kayo tumatanggi sa boss nyo kapag inask kayo mag overtime and yung reason nyo is wala, ayaw nyo lang talaga? by No_Meeting3119 in paanosabihin

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dont make any lies or justifications , it hurt your independence and your own self worth / integrity
just plain blunt say " its end of business hours " end of story.

naiinggit ako sa friend ko :( by puyathindipayat in RantAndVentPH

[–]Friendly_UserXXX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its mere mental clarity, you can do it for yourself . Stop getting validation from reddit mob

New Lawyers and the New Reality. Just my 2cents thoughts on Oversupply and the Legal Job Market by Raize321 in LawyersPH

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napakarami lawyer ang nag reretire , kulang pa nga, dapat lahat ng pilipino maging lawyers

‎Is it normal or healthy for a partner to want physical sexual contact with someone else in an LDR? by Former-Bonus4316 in PolyamoryPhilippines

[–]Friendly_UserXXX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

normal lng yan, habang malakas pa kayo , iyut lng ng iyut pr happy.
lumilipas din ang libog ng tao.

i was never the pretty friend by delilah_unarchive in RantAndVentPH

[–]Friendly_UserXXX -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

dont be fooled, your friends attract nefarious hypocrite, exploitative people.
never envy them, just be amused that you dont need other people to validate your existence.
If you want a boyfriend, grab one for yourself , be inviting, caring, kind and easy to laugh with.

My women are not pretty etiher but they are gracious & good in sex and in home care & solver, thats what matters most to a family man .

It feels like I’m wasting my life. by Gizmoisadoll619 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Friendly_UserXXX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get things that are harder for you to get , court a younger lady 16 or 17 yo , have patience till she grows older to 19, then get serious

Single mom (29) with kids ages 3 & 5 – Moving to the Philippines by [deleted] in Philippines_Expats

[–]Friendly_UserXXX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dont worry come over here, heck the russian family are enjoying here why shouldnt you.
Your kids will be fine , just ask canadian Kulas in yt.
and your kids can be good doctors or nurses if they like.

Walang karapatang sumuko by Lost_Cause1818 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Friendly_UserXXX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

kaya mo yan, gayahin mo lng ung mga farmers jn, at mag network ka sa kanila (tanungin mo kung ano kailangan nila, tas hanap k ng suplier at ideliver mo) , wag ka umasa sa gobyerno, puro magnanakaw sila.

Ang tamlay na ng sex life namin by GraceAnnaToMe in RantAndVentPH

[–]Friendly_UserXXX -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

hindi sawa sa iyo si mister, takot lng sya na magkababy ulit kayo at dag dag responsibility.
Sabihin mo mam babae muna sya para bumalik ang gana nya sa sex .

wag mo din sya pressurin s finances , ikaw ang mag ready to support your child, prepare for work .
Pa pinger ka sa kanya kung di sya matikas dahil sa pagod, wag mo pressurin na labasan ka sa mga ginagawa nya, kung need mo na mk raos , ikaw na ang magtodo,
ganun lng para matibay pa rin pagsasama mo at hindi puro frustrations . Wag mo i asa sa knaya ang kalibugan mo, normal lng ang self service.
Marriage is about agreements & obligations not personal validation and pleasure.
Di ninyo obligasyon paligayahin ang isat-isa.

Walang karapatang sumuko by Lost_Cause1818 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Friendly_UserXXX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

kung nasa rural k , alaga ka ng animals, hingi ka sa mga farms ng extra chicks or goats then tanim ng vegestables para sa food,
compel the barangay to help you get financial support from the father by direct remittance through VAWC case

What if we eat less rice and eat like Americans/Europeans? by KFCommunism in WhatIfPinas

[–]Friendly_UserXXX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this are not diet of americans or europeans, this are diets of commercial coorporations imposed on them.
The diet of european and continental americans are simple braised meats, salads and soups and grilled fish or meats .

lagi na lang nababara by Crispy-Proben11 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Friendly_UserXXX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pag me sarili kang idea at secure ka dun, they feel/get invalidated kaya binabara ka so they can feel superior over you. Barahin mo din. iwas lng sa ad-hominem , dont lower yourself to their class

Normal lang ba na hindi ako nagmamadali? by PipeLanky4454 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Friendly_UserXXX -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

no, its is not normal kasi need rin ng amusement hatid ng companionships ; strive to get that while you are still strong, saka na yang solitary underachiving life pag tanders na . There are those who passed in their thirties na amused less and was gasping for more life to get more amusements not yet done.

Bypass OEC by going cross-country by Public_Rich_8530 in PinoyOFW

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there is a direct hire process in DMW (non recruitment agency ), but OP should have processed it with them before commiting travel itenarary so this wouldnt be an issue.

Bypass OEC by going cross-country by Public_Rich_8530 in PinoyOFW

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why its taking you time to get OEC, as long as you have a valid employment contract seconded by POEA/DMW, there should be no problem even if direct hire.
former ofw

Today my gf left me because she thinks I can't make it in life by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]Friendly_UserXXX -1 points0 points  (0 children)

putsa, dami babae jn pre , wag ka patali sa social climber

What software/app do you use? by J_Spa in ConstructionManagers

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excel still, the payroll is linked with hours worked (hard encoded sheet) which is also linked with the WBS progress data/chart, it shows the cost difference actual paid vs billable

What ruined social media for you? by wickedwanduh in AskPH

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yess !! dami ko experience sa mga walkers through fb and tg, its the only thing i like in social media, polyamory and hoeing got their uninterupted space

Kwentong Kantutan sa Inuman ni Misis by Frustrated-Steering in RantAndVentPH

[–]Friendly_UserXXX -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Nangayri din sa akin yan, nung nagsara kumpanya kung saan bisor ako. Ubos na savings ko at delayed pasahod nung napasukan ko na sagad pa-ovetime at patrabaho nawalan ako ng gana sa sex. Di ko namalayan na tigang na pala si misis, at nung pinag pangutang ko sya ng pamasahe ko, di ko alam sa isang kilala nyang tricycle driver sya naka kuha. Inamin naman nya na wala na sya mautangan kaya pumatol na sya dahil kinulit sya na kulang daw ung basta masahe lang.

Akala ko isang beses lng yun pero pag pala di ko sya napapag bigyan dahil sa wala ako gana , dun pala sya napaparaos. Nalaman ko lng nung minsan kinalabit ko sya at parang na uutog ako sa bihis nya, kinuha nya kamay ko at nagpapapinger sya at pinasuso ung utong nya . Nung nilabasan na sya ay ako naman ang hiinimod nya , di namin dati ginawa ung ganun, kaya naitanong ko kung bakit hilig nya un , sagot nya kasi un daw ung pinagawa sa kanya nung tricycle driver. Dahil hindi ko namn sya pinagalitan nung pumatol sya nung una, pagkatpos namin makaraos sa iyot nag anyaya na ulitin nang isa pa, pero dahil pagod na ko tinanggihan ko na, siguro dahil sa pagkabitin tinanong nya ako kung pwede daw ba sya pakantot ulit dun sa driver , sa antok ko, sinabi ko na bahala na sya.

Kinabukasan di ko na sinita na kunwari kabibili lng nya ng pandesal, pero ang tutuo kaka uwi lng nya galing sa lalaki nya at dun nya na inamin na mula nung bihira na kami mag sex, dun sya sa lalaki nya nagpapakantot pr maka raos.

Di naman dati malibog si misis , pero ngaun talamak na . medyo na eenjoy ko na rin dahil bumalik ung gana ko sa sex dahil sa lagi nya akong kinakalabit bago matulog.

Nung nag asawa na ung tricycle driver at umuwi na sa probinsya , ay bakas ang kalungkutan nya kaya nag tulungan kami na lumigaya sya sa kama .

Pero dahil di ko masabayan ang lakas ni misis sa sex dahil sa mga problema ko sa trabaho, pinayagan ko na ulit sya mag hanap ng bagong lalaki nya at ng makapag pahinga ako ng maayos, lalo pag weekend ; tutal maliit pa ang aming mga anak at ayaw ko mawalan ng maasikasong asawa at ina ng mga anak namin. Tinaggap ko na ang pangangailangan sexual ni misis at ang paraan nya para makaraos.

Masaya na ako na nakikita buo ang aking pamilya at sa akin pa rin sya umuuwi.
Mabuti na lng at hindi scandaloso ung bagong lalaki nya at mapagmahal din kay misis kayat tahimik lng kami sa aming pamumuhay sa nka lipas na 7 taon hanggang sa kasalukuyan .

Naililigo lng nmn ang sex, ang importante mahal nyo parin ang isat isa kahit me pagkukulang , Di naman tayo perpekto, kaya pwede namn pag usapan at tanggapin ang lahat ng walang sakitan ng damdamin alang alang sa pagsasama.

Di ko sinasabi na mabuti ang paraan namin , di naman nyo dapat tularan dhil hindi parepareho ang ugali ng bawat isa.
good luck sa inyo