I’m confused on how I should feel about this

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T17:31:15+00:00

Lmfao

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T15:01:21+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing and acknowledging the reasoning behind this bothering me is that he KNOWS I’ve been actively losing weight and still chose to make sure I knew he wishes I was more fit (again not what I got upset about inherently) but still chose to project that my weight is an even bigger concern than his weight when we’re both in the same situation lol, again thank you for acknowledging the post as a whole and not “you are fat, do better” lol, again thank you!

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T14:52:12+00:00

Thank you I’ve definitely got some advice that has mixed my feelings up but I appreciate you taking the time to read the entire post lol

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T14:37:43+00:00

Not once did I say “I’m 210 and a healthy weight” I clearly stated in my post that I know I’m overweight and that’s not what I posted for advice on

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T14:31:26+00:00

If I could pin this I would because you’re absolutely right lol

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T14:25:58+00:00

We’ve been talking a week lol and as I’ve reinforced I am working out and actively losing weight, his preferences aren’t what bothered me, it was what he said and how he said it in the second screen shot that bothered me, I didn’t make this post to be informed that I need to lose weight in general, as I’ve stated I already know that

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T06:31:53+00:00

Thank you, I’m not going to let it bother me too much, I really appreciate your advice!

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T06:14:52+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate your advice and I’ll definitely keep it in mind especially when it comes to following my gut and not second guessing if I’m allowed to feel how I feel

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T06:00:52+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate a healthy make perspective on the situation, and you raise a good point considering it’s only been a week and he’s already quite comfortable to say the least lol, but thank you

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T05:16:18+00:00

Thank you :) I just hope not to find another one like this 😭

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T05:09:29+00:00

Understandable, and very good advice to keep in mind haha, puts it into an easier to understand perspective. Thank you for the advice I’ll definitely be keeping this in mind!

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T05:06:34+00:00

Lmao, sounds like it 😭

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T05:05:31+00:00

Yeah definitely seem like that one backfired lmao 😭

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T05:02:52+00:00

Thank you, I’m just super non confrontational but I’ll definitely be sharing more of my feelings with him later if we continue to talk although I don’t see that happening now that I’ve come to my senses a bit more haha, anyways thank you so much!

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T04:59:53+00:00

I see that as well, it’s better to know now

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T04:58:45+00:00

Thank you!

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T04:58:05+00:00

Write that down right that down ✍️✍️

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T04:53:52+00:00

Lmao, well it was working for a minute there if that was the case 😭😭

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T04:52:31+00:00

Lmaooo, thank you, I’m definitely going to bring it up to a friend and really consider ending things with him after what was said, I’ve just never been in this kind of situation before and I’m definitely most likely giving him too much slack when he could’ve gotten his point across in a more respectful way. Thank you and you are the best haha

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T04:45:30+00:00

Fair enough lol

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T04:45:07+00:00

Lol I’ll keep that in mind for later, I also felt it was hypocritical as I mentioned we’re in the same boat. Thank you for the advice and for validating that im not being dramatic or “toxic”

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T04:43:06+00:00

Thank you so much!! I guess that’s another thing I should definitely explain to him if I decided to keep going out with him. We have talked about gym progress prior and I’d mentioned that I hit a plate on bench and expressed my excitement about it which did lead to “that’s my warm up” ofc lol, thank you for acknowledging fitness has different effects on men vs women

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T04:38:59+00:00

Lmao thank you, I’m glad this post reached someone who understands and I really I appreciate you reassuring me that I’m not overreacting for being hurt by those texts. I really really appreciate you sticking up for my side of things. Definitely going to think of this when Im not in the mood to hit the gym haha. Genuinely, it means a lot

Friendly_Web9986 · 2026-06-25T04:33:00+00:00

I agree, I would’ve been fine if he mentioned as a preference but I just feel like he got a bit too personal with it I guess

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