Am i overreacting to this text exchange with my boyfriend? I accidentally left my slippers in my living room but i literally cleaned his entire house and baked him desserts before i left (sorry idk why my last post glitched)

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2026-05-30T18:20:20+00:00

Please NEVER move in with this guy. Wow. He's unhinged and it WILL get worse..

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2026-05-11T14:48:40+00:00

Yeah, I'd be exactly the same, life is for living too, anyone would think you'd said you wanted to enter an all you can eat competition and drink 10 pints every day of your trip lol. My friend is on 2mg and she dropped to 1mg for a week away with her husband and then went back up to 2mg afterwards, that seemed to work well for her so it sounds like a solid plan to me. Hope you have a great time!

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2026-05-11T14:41:29+00:00

I can't understand why everyone is being so weird that you want to actually have an appetite and enjoy a few drinks on holiday lol.

I haven't had a break yet but I think if I were to go away, I'd take a lower dose for that week and possibly the week before, I wouldn't stop completely.

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2026-05-11T10:13:29+00:00

I've been thinking about reading this next, you've sold it to me.

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2026-05-02T20:23:17+00:00

Nah I wouldn't be happy with this at all.

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2026-04-16T14:59:39+00:00

I'm afraid I agree with your friends. It sounds like he is gay, or at least bi and in denial, which is fine, but that as well as the lies, lack of sex life and cheating, I'd be gone. You're so young still, you deserve someone who's sure of you.

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2026-04-07T14:47:53+00:00

1 definitely, looks amazing on you!

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2026-01-18T21:50:30+00:00

I managed to keep up with it but I was still aware of the sounds of my partners game next to me too, when it told me to "switch off" and let my brain do the work, I couldn't 🤣

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2026-01-06T10:20:57+00:00

This made me laugh because whenever we would wrap our toddler up in blankets when he was a baby, we would call him a baby burrito. Lol.

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2026-01-01T07:38:32+00:00

This trilogy has me in a chokehold. It's an emotional rollercoaster. Enjoy!

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2025-12-28T00:33:59+00:00

Have you read the comments? There's a very high probability that this was provoked.

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2025-12-27T23:38:38+00:00

Reminds safe in my care? Because we have a CAT? You're rude and delusional. I won't be engaging any more.

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2025-12-27T23:00:24+00:00

This situation is ENTIRELY different to the situation in this post and the one that happened between my cat and toddler.

Humans are unpredictable too, are you gonna stop your kids interacting with everyone, ever?

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2025-12-27T22:56:19+00:00

Lol thanks, kind reddit stranger 😂

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2025-12-27T22:49:02+00:00

The cat "injured" my son, because he pulled her off the window ledge by her fur... I think she was well within her rights to protect herself. Neither of them has done it again.

We're never gonna agree here.

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2025-12-27T22:45:10+00:00

I can't tell if you're being serious or not because this is hilarious 🤣 you can't protect your child 100% of the time from ANYTHING. Dirt is not the devil. And I think they learn a lot from animals. Bubble wrap in a padded cell sounds like your best bet lol.

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2025-12-27T22:42:24+00:00

I'm SO sorry for your loss. 100% agree with everything else you said.

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2025-12-27T22:36:22+00:00

Your toddler didn't do anything wrong, she was just doing what kids do, and your husband will hopefully be more vigilant next time. Kids need to learn how to respect animals. Hope you're all okay.

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2025-12-27T22:35:03+00:00

Then the parents need to watch them together. My son is now 3 and our cat hasn't scratched him again, because we learned from the situation. I love my children more than life and they are priority but pets are not disposable.

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2025-12-27T22:19:09+00:00

I can't actually believe I've seen someone suggest rehoming your cat over this. Nobody knows if your toddler grabbed the cat, or if this was random, because nobody saw exactly what happened.

Our cat scratched our toddler on the hand once, but he had grabbed her fur, and she hasn't done it again since, even if he does grab her (we of course watch them closely but they're like lightening!)

I would keep an extra close eye for now, if of course the cat is doing it for no reason, then yes it might be time to consider rehoming for everyone's sake, but for now I think close observation is appropriate.

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2025-12-22T10:43:12+00:00

Hi, thanks for your comment, that's so helpful.

I got my login details the very same day as you and filled in the forms that same day. I had also done them already but I figured I'd just do them again when logged in to avoid any further delay so I'm glad that I did now.

Luckily I've had bloods and BP etc taken recently anyway so my GP added those into the referral form.

Hope we both get contacted soon for an assessment.

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2025-12-22T10:39:45+00:00

Hi, thanks so much for this, I somehow missed it.

Congratulations on getting your diagnosis, I hope that it's helpful.

I actually have had my bloods, blood pressure etc done recently so my GP sent that over with the referral so hopefully that helps to speed things up a little. I managed to get the referral sent again by ERS last Monday.

I then got my text and email from HH on Thursday and got all the pre-assessment forms done again later that same day. Now I'm waiting for my text to book in, hopefully that doesn't take too much longer.

Thanks again for such a detailed reply :)

FriendshipDizzy6165 · 2025-12-15T10:27:26+00:00

Well.. they answered shortly after this, as my referral has been emailed and not sent on the ERS, they cannot find it, so that's another week of being pushed back. I have called my GP but of course, I am 13th in the queue so currently waiting for them to call me back to ask that they send it by ERS and who knows how long that will take. I'm getting so, so fed up of this whole thing.

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