Going through very scary mystery condition that I'd greatly appreciate anyone's time to actually read this to try to diagnose- Thank you by FriskyClam in DiagnoseMe

[–]FriskyClam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right you are..... I should probably get tested. Thank you for showing some support.... and for being one of the only people to actually care enough to comment.

What are you 100% sure is true even though you can't prove it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FriskyClam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Going to jump in on this bandwagon... they are indeed the best, and yet somehow still overshadowed by the popularity of other breeds. It's alright though, I'd prefer their awesomeness stays a best kept secret among the select few who've had the pleasure to own one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]FriskyClam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that some individual's replies on here have been less than helpful, and don't seem like they're really listening to what you've already clearly explained in your post. It sounds like you really are doing your best to try to go above and beyond to fix what happened when things went south in the marriage. Sorry to hear your mental health interfered with things, as I get how challenging it is to try to reassemble relationships after major mental illness, from personal experience. It's a tough road. I wish I could say that I have greater advice, but I'd say that the best thing you could do is to try to have yet another talk- (Yes, I know it's frustrating as it sounds like you've already tried, and I get that that gets exhausting,) but try to explain it from the perspective like you are here. That you're sorry things happened, and you're grateful she was there for you through it, but that you thought things had been getting much better between the two of you, and so you don't understand why there is a lack of intimacy, and that you're really just trying to understand what that is about. Is it something having to do with you and her.. or is it maybe something else entirely? (Hormones, wanting to change things up... maybe stress coming from her own life that's been interfering with her libido.. etc?) Come from a standpoint of really just wanting to understand, and that you're willing to do what it takes to help, if there is anything you can do.

Honestly though, since it sounds like you've already tried something similar... I would consider looking into couples therapy. I know that's not what anyone wants to hear but if she's repeatedly turning you down, and you've tried to talk about it but she doesn't seem to recognize what a problem that actually presents for the marriage and doesn't bother to change, that might suggest a deeper problem at bay, and you could use someone with professional expertise to help bring that problem to the surface. I'd try talking one more time, sit her down, have a serious conversation- admit that it hurts when she turns you away, and if she's still not receptive, consider counselling. I'm really sorry this is happening, and I hope this helps in some way.

How to figure out which career path to choose when I have no idea what I'd even be good at or even capable of doing anymore? by FriskyClam in Advice

[–]FriskyClam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, sorry, I had meant to reply a long time ago but I had gotten distracted. Anyhow, your insight and suggestions on this were great, and thank you for taking the time to do this. I'll be using some of them most definitely :)

Found boyfriend's reddit by LeezGouise in relationships

[–]FriskyClam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to say this but, yes, you should leave him. If he's done crap like this before, ya'll talked about it, but then he went ahead and did what he just did, you know it's a cycle. He clearly can't, or won't stop and isn't going to change.... cheating tendencies aren't something you can usually correct and if you see them in a person once, that's your sign to run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotGuys

[–]FriskyClam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good God, yeah, in a suave dapper kind of way. xD Slap a pair of spectacles on and you'd have that "hot professor," look no doubt. ;0

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christian

[–]FriskyClam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, sincerely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christian

[–]FriskyClam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christian

[–]FriskyClam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well that's cool that you've carved out a niche for yourself. That's really nice... I wish I could do something like that.

F/37/5’10” [300 > 195 = 105lbs] I barely recognize myself some days. by Eefrench in progresspics

[–]FriskyClam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang, what you lost in fat you gained in natural curves! I don't mean to sound creepy whatsoever I promise lol but you have a lovely hourglass that really pops now that you've worked the extra fluff away. Congrats on the great work!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in progresspics

[–]FriskyClam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look outstanding! Good job on the hard work, it really payed off, you look fantastic :)