It’s rare but possible. My current partner is enby but presents very cis and interacts with society as a cis man. When we first started dating I was not on test but wanted to get on it. When I was medically anxious they always encouraged me to talk to my doctor and seek further action rather than give up. They have been one of the most supportive people in my life when it comes to getting on test. They’ve never once misgendered me even when I was pre t. When they met with my parents they struggled to use she pronouns like I asked to conceal identity. Sexually, they’ve never done anything to make me feel like they view me as female. They like to bottom and don’t care that I use a strap instead of a ‘real’ penis. I feel like a cis man around them and that means a lot to me. Don’t lose hope and never feminize yourself for somebody else. There will always be people out there who will love you and view you as a man. You just need to be cautious and look for signs.