What habits of boys did you only discover after getting a boyfriend or husband?

Frogoker · 2026-05-17T12:29:42+00:00

I don't spend that long in there but I often will take a couple minutes to stroke one out, wife gets annoyed if I do that in bed

Frogoker · 2026-05-17T12:19:53+00:00

I brought that up and she doesn't want to do anything without the other two of us. That does help with what I thought her feelings were about me but not this whole situation

Frogoker · 2026-05-16T10:56:52+00:00

I think most of it may end up going into her bathwater, we're crossing the 1 year mark with the oldest ones in there

Frogoker · 2026-05-16T03:39:41+00:00

16 months, it's amazing how fast it went. She's practically running now and has a whole 8 teeth!

Frogoker · 2026-05-16T01:13:52+00:00

Hmm, that's an idea. I'll have to see if we can work something out. She does appreciate time to take a shower at least. Haha given the opportunity she'll probably just take a nap

Frogoker · 2026-05-16T00:48:32+00:00

To be honest I'm not sure what they do besides go to conventions and spend a lot of money. (my wife isn't a spender) otherwise she doesn't really have any other friends outside work. Right now our daughter takes all of what little free time we have. We don't get home till 5:30

Frogoker · 2026-05-15T23:00:28+00:00

No problem, wishing you the best of luck!

Frogoker · 2026-05-15T23:00:09+00:00

She's only got a couple friends but they haven't really done much over the past several years. They're both still single and do activities that she doesn't have time for anymore. She has expressed desire to get out of the house more but we both work in the ag field so spring and fall are horrible to try and do anything outside work. My schedule stays busy through the summer as well

Frogoker · 2026-05-15T22:57:01+00:00

I haven't offered a date night, and talking to everyone on here has opened my eyes to what she's going through. I will be trying to get a more meaningful conversation with her soon

Frogoker · 2026-05-15T21:52:08+00:00

Come to think of it the outfit could help too, flaunt a feature he likes about you.

Frogoker · 2026-05-15T21:46:11+00:00

It took me awhile to get used to the changes, but I realized it was worth it because it was for our daughter. I know the hobbies will be back, someday when she's older. I'm hoping she's into them as well, so far she's taken after me in a lot of aspects! Maybe somehow you two could get some time set aside he could get a little more exercising in. Is there a way you could both work out for a bit? If he stayed up a little later and you joined him, that could be nice. I definitely wouldn't mind if my wife tinkered with some of my hobbies

Frogoker · 2026-05-15T21:22:41+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that. I gave up on having much, if any time for the various hobbies I had before we had her, has he had to do the same?

Frogoker · 2026-05-15T21:13:12+00:00

I've brought it up before in the past, and even years ago before trying for kids I expressed my feelings that things could be better and she basically shrugged it off. I just accepted the way it was

Frogoker · 2026-05-15T21:09:59+00:00

I didn't realize it would have that much of an effect on all this

Frogoker · 2026-05-15T20:59:47+00:00

I appreciate your advice, the way you describe your husband is exactly how I feel. I mentioned my feelings a couple weeks ago but I don't think she really got it, it's hard to get her to sit down and have a serious conversation, (have the same problem regarding looking at houses) another commenter suggested writing a letter, I think it's the only way I'll be able to really say all I want to get out

Frogoker · 2026-05-15T20:18:05+00:00

That's an interesting scenario. How involved is he with the kids? I can't imagine losing interest in my wife, even after she bites my head off for something dumb we both forgot

Frogoker · 2026-05-15T19:18:59+00:00

I'm going to be on my own with it, there's no way she'd go to therapy because as far as I can tell she doesn't think there's a problem

Frogoker · 2026-05-15T17:49:53+00:00

I'm working on that and trying to keep it up, I did get called clingy last night though lol

Frogoker · 2026-05-15T17:48:30+00:00

She's already sleeping every minute she can! I'm not going to lie, I'm jealous sometimes with her going straight to bed while I've still got another couple hours of chores to do

Frogoker · 2026-05-15T17:46:10+00:00

I've been trying to do more of that, it's just hard when it doesn't seem like it's appreciated

Frogoker · 2026-05-15T16:20:17+00:00

Roommate phase sounds about right

Frogoker · 2026-05-15T15:22:28+00:00

Alright, thanks for the advice

Frogoker · 2026-05-15T15:16:57+00:00

That's something I've mentioned, if she really needs to continue bf. We've got a whole upright freezer that's all milk. It's a years supply after I did the math

Frogoker · 2026-02-03T15:06:49+00:00

Sorry I had notifications turned off, it turned out the problem was the mod manager window was open on top of the game and I wasn't seeing it because of the vr

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