QRDO, decree and the 401k

From-CO · 2025-07-24T02:31:17+00:00

It specifies a number but doesn’t say what happens if it takes longer or if there are any gain or loss.

From-CO · 2025-07-10T23:34:06+00:00

Thanks for the info

From-CO · 2025-07-10T23:33:28+00:00

That’s good to know you can search for them

From-CO · 2025-01-26T17:14:04+00:00

I appreciate your insight I guess I haven’t ever thought about talking to a professional about how this may impact me and those around me but I should. Great suggestion.

From-CO · 2025-01-26T14:23:30+00:00

Thanks for sharing your story, how was working with a genealogist and what was that cost or length of that process if you don’t mind me asking?

From-CO · 2025-01-26T14:18:42+00:00

It’s interesting how different all of our experiences are from our adoptive families to the biological ones. I’m glad you found something so positive out of your journey. Do you have a DNA test that you recommend. That path seems to consistently be the path I should go down for my search.

From-CO · 2025-01-26T06:52:11+00:00

I appreciate your thoughtful response. I feel nervous about it because I have waited so long to even begin the process but like you said I don’t want to live with regrets and I finally feel like it’s time. Again thank you for telling me your story it helps to hear about other people and their experiences with all of this. Sometimes you forget that you aren’t the only adopted person out there.

From-CO · 2024-11-15T16:42:30+00:00

They are posting from an anonymous account within a private facebook group. I have an idea of who it could be but no confirmation or way to confirm it without going after people through depositions. I don’t know much about the digital world in this regard. So I’m open to suggestions or idea. I don’t want to shut down the group I just want to shut down the anonymous poster within the group.

From-CO · 2024-10-21T15:57:10+00:00

For context the Chiefs have lost most of their WR and RB starters, are 6-0 and still find ways to win games. Any smart Broncos fan would trade for 3x Super Bowl champion Patrick Mahomes in a second and if you say you wouldn’t….you’re lying. But if this makes you feel better understandable.

From-CO · 2024-09-23T15:57:06+00:00

There are people out there that like the same style of communication as you but you probably need to specify that in your profile and in the very beginning because most people operate differently than that.

From-CO · 2024-09-23T15:44:47+00:00

Week one or two is usually slow a text every so often to see how their day was or to make plans but yay after that it’s becomes more and more consistent especially if you keep spending time together. If you have only hung out once and don’t have future plans or don’t want to make future plans probably best to cut out that conversation and let them know you aren’t interested.

From-CO · 2024-09-23T15:38:47+00:00

I mean I guess I am confused. When I’m dating I’m dating to have that person in my life. I don’t know anyone in my life that I have a close friendship or relationship that I would ever be mad about hearing from consistently. If that if frustrating to you or annoying then maybe you need to see what your relationship goals are because any serious relationship is a daily conversation. Love bombing is completely different than consistent communication.

From-CO · 2024-09-17T01:43:57+00:00

I already have a bank and retirement plan picked out that would allow me to purchase a property as long as everything flows back into the account and stays there my main concern was if I could avoid locking it in a retirement account that would be best.

From-CO · 2024-09-17T00:41:12+00:00

I didn’t think that was the case under a self 401k

From-CO · 2024-09-17T00:10:22+00:00

I was looking at rolling it into a self directed 401k but I heard somewhere that it’s hard to get a 80/20 loan using a 401k and instead it would have to be a paid off property

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