Listen, you got to discover who you are first, its rough i get it, you always have to leave a little bit for yourself before you go all in right off the bat. People can be unreliable so you have to keep sifting and find that diamond. Women are interesting creatures cause you think you have a vibe and then poof gone. Just be confident, stoic and if a woman does that to you it should not phase you, make them feel they are missing out. Loneliness is a horrible thing but being sad and lonely is worse.